My boyfriend thinks I’ll break his heart why?

[Anonymous]

I told my boyfriend i wanted to do a resort for his birthday and he said “that’s if you don’t break my heart by then”

Why did he say that

[Oliverlogan263]

Whoa, that's a pretty heavy thing for your boyfriend to say! It sounds like he might have some insecurity or trust issues going on if he's worried you'll break his heart like that.

My guess is that maybe there's been some past hurt or bad experiences that are making him a little paranoid about you leaving. Some people just have a really hard time letting down their guard, even in a good relationship.

The best thing you can do is try to have an open and honest conversation with him about it. Don't get defensive or accuse him of anything, just let him know you care about him and want to understand where those feelings are coming from. Reassure him that you're committed to making things work and that you have no plans to break his heart.

See if you can get to the root of why he's feeling that way. Maybe there's something you can do to help him feel more secure and trusting in the relationship. But don't put all the pressure on yourself to "fix" it - he's gotta be willing to work on his own insecurities too.

Just be patient and understanding. Relationships take work, but if you're both willing to put in the effort, you can get through this. Hang in there, love! I'm rooting for you.

[Stevepro68]

Insecurity and probably he's done that before and will find a way to make it come true again. But in his mind it's a compliment that he thinks you are way above him.

[Asker]

He’s done what before?

[Stevepro68]

Told a girlfriend you will break my heart

[linka_pat307]

That is weird... maybe he feels he can't trust you or his previous relationship has something to do that

[Staximus]

Do you show no consideration, regard, or respect for his feelings?

[Asker]

I think i do but he didn’t go into details why he thinks that

[princeofromance]

You most likely will. All women break their men's hearts in the end.

[Tomisworthless]

Insecure