Why do so many people take things the wrong way such as sexually?

[Anonymous]

A lot of women seem to be offended on the third date or so. It’s the same women who complain about how men are too quick to jump into bed. It’s whenever we start having more deeper emotional conversations that they try escalating things.

They will say stuff like “I really thought we had a emotional connection…. I just thought you were different then other guys” I told one once that I thought she was different then other girls yet here she is rubbing up on me and sexually harassing me. She grabbed her things and left crying we never spoke again.

A lot of times it ends like this. Too many people just genuinely don’t want a real connection or emotional connection. Including women… Some do don’t get me wrong.

I am not just talking the girls who pick bad boys. At least they aren’t wasting a decent man’s time. But it’s frustrating to me. Having a romantic connection isn’t sex…

[Nikki1989]

Some women might conflate emotional intimacy with physical intimacy, seeing sex as a way to “solidify” a connection.

[Asker]

Some might but that sounds pretty twisted up. Luckily not everyone’s like that. There is people like you who are seeking something deeper and aren’t just a *****

[Asker]

Drives me crazy when people make everything sexual. Like you can’t form a genuine connection without wanting to sleep with someone that’s a worthless whore who can go have sex with the players and cheaters. As well as the creeps turds and weirdos. Because that’s all she is

[WhitneySnow]

You sound like a great guy. I hope you find the right person.

[Asker]

Thanks.