Would you date or marry your brother or sister’s EX?

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My husband was my older sister’s EX. They didn’t date for long, only for like 6 month. My husband likes my sister a lot, but my sister likes another guy. I got to know my husband while he was dating my sister. After 6 month, my sister moved on to date the guy that she likes and they got married within couple months. My husband (my sister’s EX) and I started dating and got married. My sister got divorced. I feel like my husband still have feelings for my sister and my sister still have feelings for him.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I married my sister's ex. She decided he wasn't good enough for her and ran off with a guy she was cheating with. He was really good to me as i was growing up and often included me in trips to the movies, fairs, ice-skating and so on paying for me. I was so mad at my sister for doing what she did to him. Anyway I met him at few years later when I was 15. I was going through puberty and was dressing kinda frumpy because I was self conscious about my breasts which had just exploded in size, like way too big. Anyway I got talking to him outside the sauna one Monday morning and it was good to see him, he was still talking to me like I was 12 and clearly had no intrest in me. So I go into the sauna in my one piece and he is just staring at me, he doesn't know where to look. I look down and he had a boner in his speedos. He's embarrassed and I suggest that since he likes what he sees he should ask me out some time. He did and a year later we were married. My older sister has never forgiven me, she's gotten more irritate because the other guy went off with another woman.

Malriarch1990 · Accepted Answer

Oh, hells to the NO. That just opens up all kinds of ugly worm cans. My sister was and still is pissed that guys we knew in high school dated her and wanted to date me. I NEVER dated anyone she was even interested in. Family and keeping the peace there always comes before outsiders and what they want.

Summeroflove · Accepted Answer

It can cause issues it would be weird knowing that a family member was with someone but nonetheless if it’s meant to be it's meant to be.

I will say it can cause issues and even lead to cheating. Especially if he got with you just to stay close to her but I think you need to directly talk to your husband about how he feels.

Finchie40 · Answer

Why you shouldn’t date your siblings exes period , you dig your own grave by falling for your sisters’ ex , Sex is one thing but marrying them, Hell No

glennos89 · Answer

Yeah there might still be a open end there. Personally I don't get it why you got together with him anyways. I would feel like a second option if I were in your place.
If my brother is dating someone and he rejects her, then I would never feel comfortable having a relationship with that person knowing that I wasn't her first choice

IslaTheWitch · Answer

the men my sister dated were hot... she and me share the idea of an interesting man's appearance... just their personalities weren't interesting enough for me :D

Verbano1 · Answer

I don't have brothers or sisters; but I don't think I would, because it would be disrepectful towards my sibling

Twalli · Answer

If I had a brother and I genuinely liked his ex when she was dating him, probably. I expect there would be some friction, and I might not even try if the breakup was bad, but if it was amicable or enough time passed that there were no hard feelings or lingering animus, I see no problem.

molonski2 · Answer

Gee complicated scenario.. However , in general terms I don't see a problem with the question. Do you and your sister look very much alike and similar bodies?

Valdemort · Answer

We don't have the same taste in men for starters, but regardless.. if they broke up, of most you can tell why that happened. No thank you.

WhitneySnow · Answer

Extremely unlikely, for exactly the reason you say in your last sentence

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overlord337645 · Answer

if your family hates you and you have no reason to communicate with them go for it if not run for the hills forget you ever saw the girl/guy and stay far far away

TDDMS · Answer

I don't have a brother, but if I were inside her, i would be thinking, "Wait, his dick was in the same hole that I'm in right now. So in some strange way I'm touch his dick w/ my dick."

PeachyPie93 · Answer

Eww no.. I would never take a siblings sloppy seconds :/

Anonymous · Answer

That's messed up

Here's the problem even if you confront him with it he'll deny it same with your sister. You need to catch them in the act or find hard evidence to confirm your suspicions like through his phone or her phone through his computer or her computer emails texts whatever you can find as hard evidence

Flower7 · Answer

Bad idea and you are an example of one of the reasons why. Now you have to worry about them being interested in each other.

AnonAndrew · Answer

I only have sisters, so that's never been a concern for me. But if I had had a brother, I wouldn't have minded dating a girl who was his ex.

HungTexan · Answer

I understand your concerns, but if you’re happy and secure in your marriage, I wouldn’t worry.

Joshydavid25 · Answer

Nah, my I wasn't attracted to any my brother had.. Even if I were, that's trifling in my eyes..

Rimaisme · Answer

My sister's ex was a player so No I wouldn't date him

bowenw · Answer

I wouldn’t hesitate unless the relationship ended badly.

Nightmoon23 · Answer

No absolutely not it makes things awkward and wrong not to mention if you got married it would be weird seeing your ex in the house. Plus it’s against code unless they say it’s ok

Mrtcn01 · Answer

so? you should do 3some.. at least he knows her vagina and she knows his penis..

genericname85 · Answer

in theory maybe. in practice, i was never even attracted to one of my siblings gfs.

Anonymous · Answer

I had a girlfriend who was the little sis of another girlfriend of mine. Years passed, anyway, before we started dating. I didn't jump to the second sis. The older sis didn't like the situation, but that's life

Professor-college · Answer

I don't think I would consider it since it would be weird to be with her during family reunions and I will be worried about the why they didn't work out

RingOfFire · Answer

Hunter Biden was banging his dead brother's wife.

Crazzyyworld · Answer

older sister/brothers get everything.. that's first born privilege

Eros91 · Answer

Na that be like incest to me.

CubaPirate · Answer

Well as an only child it's an impossibility

MonicaCarroll94 · Answer

No way that’s just wrong and family is way more important to me then hurting them.

Anonymous · Answer

It's a guys dream to rearrange the guts of sisters, but marry one?

ManOnFire · Answer

Something about this is oddly very hot.

DishLady · Answer

Ugh, no.

NordicInScandinavia · Answer

That would be a no thank you from me

TheRealPepperPotts · Answer

Nope.

Nerdvana · Answer

Did they have sex?

Tommy300 · Answer

No, what kind of question is this?

Jennz6 · Answer

If he asks me maybe

Wise4myage · Answer

How bout a threesome?

Anonymous · Answer

No I wouldn't.

itsannalee · Answer

Not my type

danielle872024 · Answer

No never

KittygosMeoWW · Answer

Ewww no lmao

aquamarine321 · Answer

No I wouldn’t

eagle1951 · Answer

maybe

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