Would you ever date your brother or sister's ex?

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jennifer_bloom · Accepted Answer

I don't have any brothers or sisters and my posts about my nephew and niece are actually about my first cousin's kids who I treat like nieces and nephews. And I would not date my cousin's ex husbands, cause one is a liar, one is a snob, and one has anger management issues and they would not choose me either cause my cousins made significantly more money then me and looked better than me too since they had the vehicles they needed to drive to the gym for work outs. I don't have a car to drive to the gym and my dad won't drive me there at my age, so I just do muscle training at my home when I have the time for it.

LovingJo · Accepted Answer

The bitch has done it to me, so maybe.. even just to get back at her 😂😒

Pinay_ako · Answer

🤣 I don’t have siblings but that’s one line I would not dare cross

Avicenna · Answer

My stepbrother is a leftist and only dates far left women, so no.

Anonymous · Answer

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LaFemmeFatale_1 · Answer

Nope, my brother is straight and has only dated women. I am straight too and don’t feel attracted to women, but I had one of his exes having tiny crush on me.

I just think I reminded him of my brother, we have similar mimics, similar character and similar vibes. I think she saw him in me and that’s why she crushed on me.

I always felt like that girl really loved my brother. And loved him so much that he crushed on me for the only reason, because I possessed some characteristics that reminded her of him.

Out of my brother’s exes I feel like she was the one worth loving.

WonderBell99 · Answer

My brother is straight and dates women. I’m straight as well, so I date only men. I’ll change the question a bit - Some of my brother’s friends have called me cute, but I wouldn’t go out with them since I don’t want to make my brother uncomfortable and put their friendship in jeopardy if we ever break up. I won’t even date my brother’s friends, so there is no way in hell that if I had a sister (hypothetically) I would never date her ex’s. Goes against the girl code.

Anonymous · Answer

There’s two types of wrong — an ethical wrong, and a strategic “wrong” as in dumb idea in terms of your own good. Is it ethically wrong? Very potentially Yes, possibly No — or gray-area. Dependsm Did you Dump your ex-GF/ex-BF and break their heart, and go after their brother/sister shortly thereafter? Ethically Wrong.

Is it strategically “wrong”? Most likely YES. It’s going to cause drama, issues, etc., that doesn’t do anyone any good — and easily make you look dumb. You don't want to open this bag of worms.

ShesRad80 · Answer

i have brothers so with all do respect, F*CK NO!

D_Bone_Steak · Answer

I wonder what kind of poonani my brother has gotten into? Never seen it so I don't want to just jump in and say I'd smash. The dude really live a secret ass life... no facebook or social media... I bet he's smashing a fat chick and has to keep it a secret.

I would.

midnightmoon05 · Answer

No. I know a distant relative was dating a girl then sent her off to the older brother. Worked out. Both very successful, 4 kids…also very successful. Keep the good ones in the family. 😊

petitedollbabee · Answer

Me and my siblings have completely different tastes haha. My brother likes high maintenance, extroverted, heterosexual & very feminine Asian women. And my sister is married, but her ex’s are all manipulative and narcissistic man children. No thank youuuu 🙅🏻‍♀️

Jaximus-Lion · Answer

One of my brother's exes showed some hard signals and even invited me out to a night club, she said that she liked and hope i get over that she was in a relationship with my brother. So we talked and danced, she bought me 6 or 7 tequila shots and left her at the club. Never heard from her since then 🤷‍♂️

EmmaMary · Answer

No absolutely not... Just how downright disrespectful would that be, along with the possibility of creating a huge, horrible nasty tension and atmosphere.

Thatpearl26 · Answer

No. I think that would be disrespectful to my siblings. I wouldn’t ruin our bond because of a fling.

Drewtate · Answer

I have but I would call it dating. With my brother's permission I have pump & dumped some of his exes.

Fireguy17 · Answer

Possibly.

I would probably let them know if it was Possibly getting serious.

However it would really depend on why they broke up.

Was she just a toxic human being, or what.

I dated a girl my cousin went out with a few times, ge was fine with it.

We ended up getting married, but it didn't work out.

AaronKrieger · Answer

Nah, there'd have to be hell of a strong connection for me to consider it and I would need my sibling's permission.

exitseven · Answer

no , it wpuld be weird especilly since I have a twin brother.

Lucy68 · Answer

I'm an only child so no, but if I did have a sibling still no honestly

Brainsbeforebeauty · Answer

Yeah that’s a hell NO!

comekitty · Answer

🤣 Nooooo- hard pass! The said ex would have already failed their interview and I'm not a glutton for punishment. I'd rather not be a part of the inevitable train wreck - just sayin. 🤪

DeeDeeDeVour · Answer

Even if I were into women, I'd easily discourage myself from just the thought of dating any ex of my brothers. Some them are too shallow to hang out with. Some of them simply aren't interesting.

mstbooblover · Answer

Basically I'm rather reluctant to date my brother's ex, be it already because of the misunderstandings and jealousy that may result. But then, one does not always control one's feelings, and things sometimes just happen.

LiamJHayden · Answer

No siblings and my best friends are both straight females, so I do not have to worry about such things.

Red-Blaze · Answer

If they allow it Even that if my twin turn someone down, I likely better stay away she is smarter then me

RavVid · Answer

I'm not a Hunter type guy. It would be to close to a sister relationship. Plus I would probably know why they are an ex and not want to go there.

heavymetalbrotha · Answer

Nah that's fighting grounds it would ne on sight from then on.

Kelly6 · Answer

Yes if I have a something against my sister,  good way for me

Nikki1989 · Answer

I really don't know my brother or sister, so why not.

fyrds · Answer

No, I know them too well. Part of the fun of dating is learning about someone new, finding out about them. Wouldn't want to miss that.

JeffersonA · Answer

A lot of people do I would not but no siblings. Some poeple even have a kink for it. That they are better then Thier sibling

catiecatie · Answer

Nope. I know how they treated my sister and it just doesn’t sit right with me.

Anonymous · Answer

If I had siblings... I likely would not. Unless it was really an amazing connection and potential for marriage. Otherwise, no. Not worth it. But I never had siblings so, I don't know how all that works.

Anpu23 · Answer

Me and my brother have very different taste in women, I don't see this being an issue. But if it came up, yes I wouldn't care.

OfMiceandMen · Answer

Ahhh... no! Seen my bro's taste in women... just no...

Biancam13 · Answer

No because I'm not selfish or messy like that.

Billlewis · Answer

Only if my brother lived a long way away from me.

hahahmm · Answer

If I pretend that my sister would have an ex who is a woman: no.

strateguy632 · Answer

once they break up, now it is my turn especially if age gap small.

Anonymous · Answer

Only if he really didn't like her and it ended with me doing something incredibly toxic. I'm not a toxic person but my brother is and I love the shit outta him lol

Anonymous · Answer

No, I might pump and dump her, but I'd never ever do anything beyond that... she is off limits...

boobliker · Answer

My brother married my ex-wife now she ex two times over big LOL ..  I did give him the heads up when he asked me if he could see her?

jshm2 · Answer

Sure, pussy is pussy. Wouldn't marry though.

Meropatrick · Answer

No wayyyyy. Its really nasty. Only a man with no dignity would want to fuck the same women his brother fucked. This is fucked up

Christoff92 · Answer

Holy cows wouldn't that be a warpath. Not all siblings get along. Me. Can't even get along with my own siblings based on poor family matters 😕

Sparkie460 · Answer

I ended up marrying my brother's ex. She broke up with my brother, dated a different guy then she left him to date me

humanearth · Answer

Nope, I'm 15 years older then my brother. His women would be too young for my liking

lorenzomichael · Answer

Never that's just wrong. Where's your loyalty to your family member? Unless they didn't give a shit. But even then not a good idea.

DizzyDesii · Answer

No but we have liked the same guys before

Sanser · Answer

HELL NO wtf. That would be an interesting chrismas family dinner for sure...

runnerboy · Answer

Maybe... But all I have is an older sister so I would not date one of her exes.

zagor · Answer

No, my brother has very different taste in women than I do.

MizzArtFreak89 · Answer

Honesty, I wouldn’t. It would just be weird and horrible.

TrillXHippy · Answer

I will always only be attracted to women so no I will not ever date any of my brother’s exes.

NextDoorNat · Answer

That would be super awkward so probably not.

HippieVeganJewslim · Answer

If the ex has nothing horrible going to them, I might!

AmandaYVR · Answer

Ewww. Noooo.

Luckycharms12 · Answer

Fuck no. We have slept with the same girl but that was years apart and I was there first

Manuel2 · Answer

Yes! Why not? My brother is dating one of my exs. Ok by me.

Jltakk · Answer

None of us have had a partner, but I wouldn't go for them if they were available

annabananna · Answer

No way! That’s would be too weird

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