Would you ever date your sibling's ex?

[MicahRaine]

For me that's a huge no-no because my sibling has a VERY different taste in people so I'd know right away that we would never get along.

[Luopio27]

No thanks!
But I do know few sisters that have fucked the same guy. Othe pair of sisters did so at the same time in a threesome, not just once with one guy but gave that experiance to all!


Jada pinket smith had an entanglement with her son's friend.


What I see in porn, stars like manuel ferrara fucking mothers, stepdaughters and anything imaginsble... Makes me wonder if anyone in real life, not acted out porn, but for real has had sex with the ADULT age son/daughter and the parent of same gender! Out of 8 billion people on the planet, im sure someone has!

[MicahRaine]

Yeah I would never either.

those sisters have issues.

I've never heard of jada pinket smith

Unfortunately I know someone who did. Actually, "knew" would be a better word. I cut them off when I found out.

[Luopio27]

That would be will smith's wife, the millionaire actor from Hollywood who slapped Chris Rock in the Oscars.

You know someone who did what exactly?

[Luopio27]

Tell me the whole story man!

[MicahRaine]

Naw I'm good moving on from that lol

[Luopio27]

I respect your privacy!

[HawkPerception]

Absolutely not. That's strange as hell to me. Why would I ever want to put my dick in the same place as my brother? Same thing as a friend. I wouldn't be with anyone that a friend or sibling was with.

[MicahRaine]

^^^^

[jvnxs]

FUCK no. Like the biggest possible fuck that could be issued, no. My sister dates some questionable looking creatures, I think I'm good on that note. And also, if they're exes it's usually for a good reason. And ALSO, it's just weird... like imagine kissing someone your sibling kissed? Eugh. No.

[MicahRaine]

I couldn't agree more. It just sounds gross

[TheRealPepperPotts]

No way. They all have major issues... Even if they didn't, my sister would be the type to try and get them to cheat with her and then hold it over my head as a "victory". No way...

[MicahRaine]

Mood af

[BetaBucks]

No, but if I had a brother who died, I'd marry her, even if she was ugly af, and support them so the kids would have a normal life. I'd just ask to sleep with other women, in secret. If she was attractive, that would seem even weirder cuz I couldn't imagine banging even my best friends' exs.

[MicahRaine]

Why marry her and have a loveless marriage? Why not just provide for her and stay single?

[BetaBucks]

Not for her, for the kids. Give them a sense of continuity in the family dynamic. As opposed to the string of dirt bags that will be in and out of their lives instead. The single highest predictor of physical and sexual abuse of children is a single mother that dates new men. And it's exponentially more risky than anything else.

[MicahRaine]

Aw fair

[TheRealPepperPotts]

Whoa, dude. Think about what you're demonstrating to the kids; that it's normal to cheat in a marriage. Just support her and spend time with the kids. If she does end up with a douche bag, the kids will rely on your stability as they weather the upheavals. You can offer to help out with the kids while she is dating, too, which would help protect them.

[MicahRaine]

@TheRealPepperPotts Yeahh. . .

[BetaBucks]

@TheRealPepperPotts anything would be better than her having a rotation of dudes around my nieces/nephews. The odds of them being molested or abused are exponentially higher than them somehow sensing a fake marriage. It wouldn't be cheating if it was established that the marriage is specifically for the kids' sake and has nothing to do with our feelings or attraction. It's not like she has to take the deal either. But this would just force her to date guys in secret too, which is what would protect the kids.

Absolutely nothing matters more than the well-being of the kids. Including my feelings or her feelings. Unfortunately the vast majority of our society doesn't see it that way and kids become an afterthought.

[TheRealPepperPotts]

@BetaBucks I respect and appreciate your view and the heart behind it. But aren't you kind of assuming that the hypothetical sister-in-law is clueless and naive, too? I agree that nothing is more important that the well-being of the kids. But kids aren't stupid, and they will put two and two together. It can't be controlled.

I really, genuinely want to emphasize how much I respect your heart here. I just think the response is based in fear and control, and I really think it would be a disaster. Not because of you, but because she would probably act out knowing you didn't love her. Guys have a tremendous capacity to compartmentalize, but most women can't live with that. What if you built a rapport with her and scouted out guys for her to date? That would be an amazing gesture of care and love, and she might end up with an incredible guy who loves both her and those kids.

This is of course hypothetical. I've crossed paths on here with you before and we agree on a lot of things, I think. :)

[BetaBucks]

And, likewise, I 100% know you're talking in good faith, so I take seriously whatever you have to say.

Your points are for sure valid, but I think I'm just coming from a place of statistics. I can't see past that part. Obviously there would be downsides, like the ones you mention (and plenty for me too, obviously) but I'd still make the same decision just based on the odds. Now, if there was something at play that made me think she would be different than the average, then of course I wouldn't get involved.

[electromagnetic]

Absolutely not. Minus the fact that they aren’t my type, they’ve already dug into my sister guts.

[MicahRaine]

Yeah exactly.

Even if they would be a perfect fit, I don't want to fuck the same girl as my brother. Just no, not EVER.

My brother is an abstainer/celibate though anyways so I guess that part isn't applicable to me. I would still NEVER date an ex of his though.

[natured]

I mean, other than TASTE, it's just disrespectful !!! That's supposed to be a taboo for real

[MicahRaine]

fr

I don't know why it's not taboo. I feel like if your sibling had sex with them it's just as bad as incest.

[Mado108]

Hell no!!! This is so low vibrational! Why would someone go so low in life…

[MicahRaine]

I've never heard "vibrational" used like that before. Some people are desperate/just never grew up with morals.

[dragoblack]

Nope, i learned what an unstable, toxic, and abusive relationship is growing from seeing my brother's relationships. He always went after dumb and/or mentally unstable women... and my brother is a highly charismatic narcissist (best description for him is literally a D&D bard stereotype)
He has only ever had 1 or 2 stable girlfriends in his life

[kat1212]

I wouldn’t. His friends definitely have been interested though 😂

[MicahRaine]

lol I don't really get friend groups like that where the guys all want the same girl. To me that's weird

[debtfree_oneyear]

I can see why their interested

[Mwolf]

I don't know for sure I have only seen him a few times briefly and never more than small talk.

[MasterKS]

@Mwolf the road is open!

[Dinklex3]

🤮🤮

Never. We have completely different types and hang around completely different crowds.

[LiamJHayden]

I have no siblings, but in high school I went on dates with three different sisters at different times, two of whom were twins, but I was never intimate with any of them.

[Anonymous]

I never did do but I would, and she could date mine except my guy now I'd be very hurt if she did if he ever became an ex.

[debtfree_oneyear]

I've wanted to date my sister friends but nothing came of it. She wasn't keen on me dating her friends.

[McLlovin]

No. I wouldn't do that to a friend let-alone a family member

[MicahRaine]

amen MCLOVIN

[McLlovin]

Lol.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Maybe I would. I know a lot of siblings who have very different personalities

[Aiko_E_Lara]

It would be a problem if you date your ex's sibling for revenge but fine if you really do like each other

[Anonymous]

Nah, but when an ex cheated on me, I banged both of her sisters and her best friend.

[MicahRaine]

wtf 😐

[Ladsin2]

He'd be way to young for me... So there's a few problems there.

[CB-Raido-Time]

NO that's not acceptable.

[CB-Raido-Time]

Same goes for any of my relatives X's.

[MicahRaine]

Fair.

[RavVid]

To close to family even if it s ex family

[MisterWack]

Nope.

[NathanDavis]

no chance, no

[Paige90]

Yes I would

[Tim2nice]

Yes I would

[DrPepper12]

NO!! 🤢🚫🛑🗡️🩸👊🏻

[ProbablyClueless]

No shot

[exitseven]

EWWWWWW. NO.

[MicahRaine]

Amen

[Jamie05rhs]

Hell no.

[Anonymous]

There is No way

[noohair]

Ask Hunter.