Would you be ok with your sibling dating your ex?

[ryckrohan]

I'm curious how would you feel if your siblings dated your ex regardless of how long ago you broke up?

Also would you date your ex's sibling?

[tiffany_g]

Doesn't bother me at all. My sister-in-law is one of my ex girlfriends. In her early 20s she thought she might be interested in women so we dated for a few months. She realized that it was no different than her relationships with her female friends, other than kissing, holding hands, and bedroom stuff. Once she figured out that she was already getting what she wanted from her platonic friends and didn't enjoy the bedroom stuff with women we called it off.

After my brother was able to set aside the fact that she slept with his little sister they started dating, and now they have two kids and run a farm and store together.

[Imcmullan]

Talk about a mature family lol

[rainbowbi]

yeah as long as they are really in love and happy , I'm cool

[ryckrohan]

Makes sense. Great!

[ChrisMaster69]

Not a problem, I have never controlled my sister.

I have advised and had the odd talk with various boyfriends, that may have suddenly become ex boyfriends.

but nope no problem and she did date an ex of mine for a bit, but was a few years after we had split up (amicably).

[Jusin]

Would I like one of my brothers dating my ex no... I would hate that cause I still care about her and we both went down on each other :p so that would be really awkward for me.

Would I date my ex's sibling? Ehhhh no she definitely wasn't my type at all.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

No and no!! You broke up for a reason, right?
*From the ex angle, why would I still want to see someone I broke up with at family gatherings, holidays, etc. Usually you break up with someone cuz you no longer want them in your life...
*From the sibling angle, why would a sibling that is supposed to love me and care get with someone that may have hurt me...
And if there's kids involved, that's even worse...
And would never date an exes sibling for same reasons...

[ryckrohan]

It would be pretty awful with kids involved

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

I know two people that did that, one a friend that did that, had a kid with one brother and then married and had 3 with the other... And my ex married his brother's ex finance who had his brothers kid and now they have three together.. And yeah Don't know bout my exes kids but know it bothered my friend's kids

[ryckrohan]

Nobody think about the kids in these situations and they are important

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Right! Exactly!!!

[Dazed0N0Confused]

Unless my brother is gay or bi, there isn't any way for that to happen.
But I would feel disrespected by my brother if this was the case. It doesn't matter if we had been broke up for a month or for years. I had loved that man, I had put my all into the relationship & it fell through. It would be a slap to the face if my brother did this to me.

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't be ok with ANYONE close to me getting involved with someone I dated or was involved with. Siblings, friends, whoever. And if they cared about me, they wouldn't even be interested in anyone I dated or was involved with. Been through that before. Never dealing with it again.

[Anonymous]

My only sibling plays for the home team, so to speak hence is will never be a concern I have to have

My exes sibling
one ex only had a younger sister and that doesn't work for me
The other had older sisters but I only met one and well I might, if I'm totally honest with you

[ryckrohan]

Cool.

[19magic]

It depends on how long they were dating, like if it was a few dates then yeah go for it what I hate maybe something they like etc, but if you had sex or worse dating for a long time and ended on bad terms then that's a huge no from me

[JosyJosy]

My last ex, we parted on neutral terms so whatever. Whenever we see eachother, we just talk and update eachother on what's been going on in our lives, no difference from with other people you know. So I wouldn't mind, he's a good guy

[ryckrohan]

Thank you. Not all people part badly. Plus what's wrong if you know your sibling would be happy

[JosyJosy]

My previous ex is a cheater, if my sister would be wanting to date him, I'd think it's wrong, it's like you see her buying a car with no breaks

[ryckrohan]

Well you would have to warn her. If she insist on it guess there if nothing more you can do in

[JosyJosy]

That's true, who won't listen, must feel.

[jshm2]

There was a case a long while back where one twin had the other murdered and married the murderer.

Sibling rivalries can escalate real fast.

[ryckrohan]

Ain't that the truth!

[pandyponde]

I don't speak to them but if they fancied sloppy seconds, good for them I guess.

[ryckrohan]

Sloppy seconds could be fun

[pandyponde]

Sure, because dating shitheads and cheaters sounds fun. XD

[desidoll]

Depending on which ex, though I would say it is an awkward situation. I won’t be too encouraging about it because they become my ex for a reason.

[jennifer_bloom]

I don't have a sibling but if I did I would be okey with it only if I did not want to date the man anymore and was happy with somebody else.

[Whitemeatchicken]

I don’t think it’s right for people to use others just to get back at someone. Especially if it’s family because family is important.

[sheikalana]

I trust there are not many chances of this happening to me. I don't have a sister and my brother is straight.

[Hazelstar99]

No and never. I'll kill my ex if he came any close to my sister.

[ryckrohan]

Wouldn't you hold your sister accountable too? Takes two to tango

[Hazelstar99]

My sister wouldn't go for my ex as far as I know her.

[ryckrohan]

I imagine not. But hypothetically speaking what if she did?

[Hazelstar99]

Yeah then I've to take her accountable but I'll still kill my ex 🤣

[ryckrohan]

Lol. Well I'm happy you won't uh ave a reason to. I didn't exact date two sisters. I made a move after a girl went well for a day then ended. About a year later I started dating her sister which lasted like 4 years. Tbh the first girl was sad when I broke up with her sister.

[Hazelstar99]

Dude! I would have killed you. I don't know how she left you.🤣

[ryckrohan]

I guess it's cuz it wasn't really a relationship. We just started talking for literally one day then both agreed it wasn't happening. She actually thought I was good for her little sis.

[Anonymous]

It would honestly depend on how long the relationship was, how badly it ended, and if there was infidelity between them before we split up. As well as if we had done anything sexual prior to breaking up because obviously that would be super weird.

[ryckrohan]

Ok all things being good but you had a sexual relationship what then?

[Opinion Owner]

I would tell my sibling I was against it because of that. explain that I think it would be weird for an ex of mine to have sex with my sibling.

[ryckrohan]

That could be weird. Been there though. All parties moved forward quite fine

[Opinion Owner]

Interesting.

[ryckrohan]

Yes. Both siblings don't talk about it other than the initial discussion when my ex was told I'm with her sister.

[Opinion Owner]

Honestly my siblings aren’t old enough yet but I’ll keep this in mind for if something happens between them haha

[ryckrohan]

Got ya. It's totally possible cuz they can meet your ex out there n be in a relationship for months before you even know about it

[leilak]

no but if they’re truly happy then i’ll tolerate it for their sake

[Kezzz]

Well she's my ex for a reason. I'd tell him that reason and absolutely advise against going down that road.

[ryckrohan]

Make sense

[Kezzz]

Yep.
Don’t have any siblings but in that scenario this is certainly my plan

[ryckrohan]

I have been with siblings

[Kezzz]

Interesting

[ryckrohan]

Yep. Wasn't an issue either. The second sister did ask about the first sexual preference seems to get her off.

[AmourHoney]

Considering my sibling is a 6 year old boy no I can’t say I would be okay with it 🤔

[DellBell]

Nope that would be just so weird on so many levels.

[Walamagicc]

That is so weird and gross. No I wouldn’t be ok with it

[Inexpensivefurniture]

I wouldn't be okay with that. My exes deserve better lol

[GoldenTulip]

No never ... i would not like it... it is the same with friends dating your exes... it's just not done.

[IveGotNoName]

Depends on the breakup, but I don't think I would be okay with it

[Wowboi]

There too many fish in the sea for two dicks from the same family to share one pussy and have to live with that fact lol

[ryckrohan]

When you put it like that... you have a strong point

[Anonymous]

I don't have any siblings but if I did, I would feel uncomfortable with my sibling dating my ex.

[Steve1071]

No, and my sibling would end up being buried under the jail.

[ryckrohan]

What?

[blondfrog]

If any of my brothers did not that they will going up a wall.

[ayomanwya]

No I wouldn’t be okay with my siblings dating my ex and no I wouldn’t date my sibling’s ex

[EyebrowChewie]

That is the worst betrayal.

[SphynxUK]

It would be no and no.

[Dinklex3]

Ew.
Hell no to both.

[Egirl28]

No I would not at all be okay will that

[Josh4206]

Yeah as long as I didn't live with them

[whtguy1986]

Yeah but my stomach wouldn't

[ryckrohan]

Explain that

[ITGirl95]

If my ex is a decent person then no problem

[kingofthellamas]

Ask Lady Sarah McCorquodale

[xxAlanaxx]

No, that would be really weird...

[Aphrodite11_96]

No it be weird it’s almost incest.

[Aphrodite11_96]

I wouldn’t date my brother’s girlfriend.

[ryckrohan]

Incest tho?

[Aphrodite11_96]

Well if he was in her then I go down to me it be like it.

[ryckrohan]

Never thought of it that way

[daddieswoop]

Are you a virgin or not

[ryckrohan]

You're asking if I'm a virgin? Why?

[Marshymallow]

Hell no

[ryckrohan]

Y not

[Marshymallow]

It's weird af

[ryckrohan]

But it happens tho

[razilia]

No, I will not be ok. Ex is an ex for a reason.

[Alyssa11]

Hell no

[tamtampro]

Nooooo I can’t 😳

[electromagnetic]

Probably not.

[JEndigoBleue]

Nope.

[Anonymous]

This is messed up on so many levels

[emiliadavid]

A big no no no

[Waldoe]

NO...

[harry7825]

Maybe