Would you be upset if one of your parents’ was spending a lot of time with your ex partner?

[Finchie40]

After my brother and his wife got divorced , cuz she decided she no longer wanted to be married and broke my brothers’ heart , My Dad has been spending a lot of time with her and acting like it’s no big deal. I was upset that my father was doing that to my brother and told my father that he is a selfish piece of shit to be doing that to your son. Am I wrong?

[KtownSlapps]

Very inappropriate and weird. But they're both adults and if your brother is OK with it then I guess it is what it is. If your brother isn't ok with it then I'd think it would be up to him to express that to your guys dad.

[Finchie40]

My brother just says it’s what it is but I can hear it in his voice that he isn’t to happy about it.

[Nikki1989]

It would seem like a petty thing to be concerned about and really none of your business.

[Jamie05rhs]

Yes, your dad is a selfish piece of shit. And you were right to confront him about that.

[DrPepper12]

Possibly. How does your brother feel about it is the important question!

[Finchie40]

My brother isn’t to happy about it but he doesn’t say anything because he doesn’t want to stir up the pot. And just accepts it for what it is. I just tell my brother that I wouldn’t tolerate that shit whatsoever and would never do that to one of my kids’ I said Dad is a selfish person that only thinks about himself , he has always been that way even when our Mom was still alive. My Dad knows I am not happy about it and I had words with him defending my brother. My Dad claims he just likes spending time with her because they actually like to go out and do things and apparently my brother doesn’t. I said I don’t give a shit , that’s your son find someone else to spend time with , not your son’s ex that did him dirty big time. I said you are a selfish person and that’s why I lost respect for you and hung up the phone

[chrissykerdock]

no they might be influencing her to behave better

[Vxitmmcia]

I agree with this!

[chrissykerdock]

@Vxitmmcia you mean dating sort of

[Finchie40]

My Dad is a selfish man , he always has been , even when my Mom was alive he was always selfish , but to do that to your own son is fucked up in my opinion, I had words with my Dad and said what I needed to say and hung up the phone on him. I would never do such a thing to one of my kids’ whatsoever, she did my brother dirty and broke my brothers’ heart but our Dad is still going to spend time with her and act like everything is ok? He is a sick individual that I wish dropped dead instead of my Mom.

[chrissykerdock]

so it's about dating sort of not just spending time

[PrincessFiona]

No, it doesn't look good. He should be on your brother's side all the way.

[sage2021]

Yep, he's a selfish piece of 💩

[Manuelwe]

It happen to me until they found out their criminal pass