Would you consider leaving your wife because of her past?

[Anonymous]

I left my wife after finding out about her past, but I’m still hurting. I (26M) was married to my ex-wife (31F) for three years. While moving, I found an old photo of her with a much younger boy. After investigating, I learned she had dated a 16-year-old when she was 22. I couldn’t stay, but why does this still hurt so much?

[FreyaRed]

I think your relationship wasn't especially good for you and this is just an alibi explanation why you dumped her. In happy relationships where both sides benefit from being together is past not really a topic. Especially something like that, it's unusual but nothing pervert or disgusting.

[princess]

If you can't handle it, you should never have gotten married.

[teguy]

Everyone has their history, and it’s who she is now that matters. What’s important is how you've built your relationship and how you move forward together. Her past doesn’t define your future unless you let it. Trust and understanding matter.

[brandon]

No, I wouldn’t leave my wife because of her past.

[Anonymous]

You did it to yourself. That's dumb to leave her over something from 9 years ago that has nothing to do with you.

[In_Trance]

I think you may be retarded.
Not sure what her past has to do with you or why it's any of your business

[dudeinohio]

Nope