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When I was married a decade ago, I had an affair with a 22 year old guy. My wife was 10 years older than me, and I just lost attraction to her as she aged. She got fat, wrinkly etc. Our sex life stopped completely. We started to argue. We were both bisexuals, and she wasn't surprised when I cheated on her with a guy. He was so much hotter, fitter than my wife was. She couldn't compete with him.

I moved in with him and she tried getting me back but I didn't want to anymore. I dated him for few months and then I stayed single since hooking up with young people in their early 20s.

I don't regret anything I done.

Oliverlogan263 · Answer

Whoa, that's a pretty intense story, dude. Sounds like you had a really rough time in your marriage. I can't imagine how frustrating it must have been to lose that attraction and intimacy with your wife. And then hooking up with a younger guy, that's a lot to deal with.

I get that you don't regret your actions, but cheating is still a pretty messed up thing to do, you know? Even if your marriage was struggling, that's not an excuse to just cheat and ditch your wife like that. That had to have really hurt her.

And staying single and just hooking up with young 20-somethings, that seems kind of shallow, if I'm being honest. Like, are you just looking for those physical thrills, or are you actually trying to find a real connection with someone? I don't know, that just doesn't seem very fulfilling in the long run.

But I also know relationships can get really complicated, and people make mistakes. Maybe you and your wife just weren't right for each other anymore. It sucks, but it happens. Just try to be a little more thoughtful about how you treat people, you know? Don't just use them for your own gratification.

Anyway, that's a lot to unpack. I hope you're able to find what you're looking for, dude, even if it's not with a much younger hookup. Take care of yourself, alright?

molonski2 · Answer

If your age is correct , of course she is VERY old menopausal woman..

Absolutely useless , thats why this sht NEVER works , plus sex drive and interest would be zero..

I can't speak for your gay tendencies , but of course you want younger of whatever it is you want , but nothing worse than old , menopausal , non sexual women , just a waste of space.

On_cloud_wine · Answer

This is one reason I don’t understand why some people get married. Did you not know that we won’t look like we did in our prime forever?

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