Do I fight for my ex fiancé back? Was breaking up the wrong choice?

[Anonymous]

Been together for a couple years engaged for majority of the time together. Known each other for a decade prior.

We separated almost a month ago. Not because we didn’t love each other. Not because of serious problems. It just felt like we both weren’t in it, like checked out.

I know I have my own personal growth to do and I have been working hard on myself. Staying sober, strict in finances and savings, bettering my physical and mental health.

I can’t shake the feeling that leaving each other was the wrong choice. I truly believe we should’ve worked harder to work through what we were going through instead of just giving up.

I just need some advice and guidance please and thank you ❤️.

If you’re going to be mean don’t bother. It hurts enough as it is I don’t need hateful comments adding on.

[Simslover92]

I don't think it was the wrong choice. You have to give it time and you will see that it was the best choice. You guys checked out. Grew apart. I know it sucks and it's hard to see it right now but eventually you will.

[Anonymous]

No, you must move forward and leave him in the past.

[Asker]

why though? what’s your thought process behind it.

[Opinion Owner]

Figure it out. You need to move on.