Guys, Do you get angry if your girlfriend cheats back?

Question

Ok so I have been in a long term relationship with a guy that cheated on me in the beginning of our relationship. I forgave him but I was extremely hurt so I cheated back and never told him about it. My question is if he finds out do you think he will he hurt or upset? FYI it was with someone he knew.

Summeroflove · Accepted Answer

Cheating back is not okay it’s scooping to that level… it’s better to LEAVE and not be a degenerate in your own right. Especially, giving someone something to use against you.

Yeah. Look. Cheaters cheat. But they HATE being cheated on. Many times when they cheat they feel as if they have a upper hand in the relationship. Cheaters also feel as if they are the best person (narcissists many times) and that they simply cannot be replaced.

Yeah. This relationship…. You should cut it off.

Finchie40 · Answer

Cheating back isn’t ok , 2 wrongs don’t make a right , so by you cheating on him , should of been your answer to end things with him , instead of pretending everything is alright , so by you staying with him , just means you are wasting your time and missing out on someone that you actually love and care about that you wouldn’t cheat on , you clearly don’t love Your boyfriend or you wouldn’t of cheated on him period

OneViewpoint · Answer

Were you hurt when he cheated on you? Well he's gonna be hurt when he finds out you cheated on him. But... he really can't say much since he went there first. He's pretty much gotta take his lumps on the payback.

Will he be man enough and mature enough to recognize and accept that he set this whole chain of events in motion? Or will he behave like a butthurt man baby and go off on you? I don't know the guy.

Purpleronnie · Answer

Hahaha … you both deserve each other.
Clearly you never forgave him at all , but vindictively chose to cheat back as some sort of pseudo perverted punishment even though presently he feels no pain and is likely still cheating on you.

You should tell him you cheated but you likely won’t as cheaters are generally also cowards

Should I ever find out that a girlfriend has cheated on me , the relationship is over.

Sam1133 · Answer

I cheated my girl with her best friend while we're in relationship she was hurt she cheated on me with her ex just to make me angry I said its fine i cheated on you wihj your best friend you cheated on me with your ex. Its fine.

Why should I expect loyalty when I myself cheated on her? Its fine.

Zack-Bann · Answer

You fucked someone else, went home, took a shower, and slept next to him Of course he’ll be angry  It doesn’t matter if he did it first  Cheating anger isn’t mathematical. It’s an emotion

Drumlin2001 · Answer

I never cheat. But in theory I would be annoyed by this. Two wrongs don't make a right. She either forgives the initial mistake or leaves. Cheating back helps noone

In_Trance · Answer

Revenge is small dick energy no matter who does the cheating.
If you get cheated on, you should be thinking how you contributed to the problem and avoid those actions in the future
People cheat when they're given reason to cheat

MisterPandemonium · Answer

It doesn't really sound like you're in a healthy relationship. Maybe you should just leave him.

Miristheiss · Answer

The moment anyone cheats it is over, dead, putrid. If you stayed then you are a fool.

fivebyfour · Answer

I never cheated, but I would find it hot if I found out she cheated with a guy with a huge penis lol,,,

Aakash_Hangargi · Answer

I am not sure if you cheated out of spite or just using it as an excuse may be you already wanted to cheat.

JesseP1nk · Answer

You are an idiot. What did you gain by cheating back? You just wasted your own time by being in this bs relationship which already started with cheating.

Anonymous · Answer

He disrespected you and then you disrespected him. Break up, then stop dating until you grow up. And, yes, he should do the same.

Fireguy17 · Answer

no clue, for me it's one and done. I'm gone. I have a few Ex's that can vouch for that.

WonderingManII · Answer

Sounds like this relationship is soon to be dead.

Twalli · Answer

He'll be both hurt and upset. I'm guessing you were hurt and upset when you found out. Why wouldn't he be?

jahaims · Answer

You are both broken trash that are too immature for a healthy relationship

Anonymous · Answer

You're a child, but you probably deserve one another. If it felt good to cheat and you enjoyed the sex, do it again and let us know, please.

ABC1x1x · Answer

I don t cheat and if a hoe cheats she ain't my girlfriend. This is an impossible scenario

blackeagle007 · Answer

Hope he finds out. Two wrongs don’t make one right

Anonymous · Answer

Two wrongs don't make a right and hurting him won't make your hurt and betrayal any less painful than what it was. Be a better person be above him

Anonymous · Answer

I'm single, but if I would have a girlfriend, I would never cheat on her.

Anonymous · Answer

Does it really matter? You're both pretty terrible people.

Anonymous · Answer

No I think he will be happy and relieved… the fuck?

kaucky1 · Answer

If cheat cheat together morph into other people

MasterKS · Answer

tit for tat.

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