Why does he still like my Instagram stories every day after our breakup?

[Anonymous]

My situationship and I ended things almost a week ago… due to distance and him sayin he was gradually losing feelings because he no longer has hope seeing a future for us long-term despite he was happy with me. We didn’t end on a bad note, we still have respect and love for each other… but it didn’t mean I was happy about us ending because I wanted to be with him.

[WhitneySnow]

He misses you. Why didn’t he see a future for you long term?

[Asker]

I felt like we were happy and prefect. I told him I was sorry I didn’t know he was sad, which he said he wasn’t sad but he was losing hope for the future as long-term… He mentioned struggling with the distance.. but I think it’s more so about our repeated problems with his emotional capacity to handle it… bc he started to lose his temper and said he don’t wanna hurt me anymore

[WhitneySnow]

He misses you but he’s emotionally unavailable. He did the right thing. You need to find another guy who can actually deal with his feelings.

[Asker]

Sighs I think that’s still very hard to swallow… deep down… he was and I wish he still is that person… I wished he misses me enough to fight for us and grow.. I think he lost confidence or hope in making it work I guess bc of the repeated probs I guess

[WhitneySnow]

I’m sorry. But I don’t see a good outcome here.

[Asker]

Oh why…

[WhitneySnow]

Because guys who have problems with emotions hardly ever really change or grow into their feelings

At least he was honest with you and isn’t a player

[Asker]

Well I guess it’s more like he was starting to lose his temper about our repeated probs and he said I deserve someone who can handle it better than he did…

I was shocked, sad, and thankful all at once bc he has been trying… and suddenly… he’s not anymore? It makes me feel like I wished he could try more… but I agree I do appreciate his honesty…& hopefully he wasn’t a player

[WhitneySnow]

He gave up. He didn’t want to change. That’s why you need to find another guy.

[Asker]

Is it that he don’t want to change… or it was more of his emotional capacity to handled it better? :/

[WhitneySnow]

He doesn’t want to be more emotionally available and actually grow his emotional capacity because it’s too much work

[MaddieXH]

Block him he’s trying to keep you reminded of him and waiting for you to take the bait.

he ended things because he didn’t want a relationship and got worried but he misses the intimacy and is trying to communicate that to you.

if you take him back he’ll remember how he didn’t want a long term relationship and leave again after he’s had enough intimacy. This cycle will repeat itself so better to not even get involved in it.

If he was genuine and being without you made him realise he deeply missed you, he’d be asking to take you out and make you his girlfriend

[nomomrnice]

Well if it was that important of a relationship then somebody should have compromised or both and come to a common Middle ground

[Asker]

So why he still likes my stories everyday even after he ended it

[I_want_peace]

U've become his habbit, therefore he's finding it difficult to leave you eventhough he's the one who called things off.

[Asker]

Maybe you’re right.. at first he would only “like” one story per day.. after the third day.. he would started liking all my stories.. I wish there was a slim hope he wanted to come back

[Danny_dan92]

Clearly he hasn’t moved on

[Danny_dan92]

And neither have you

[Asker]

Yeah it has only been almost a week lol. I still care and it was his decision to end thibgs… which is why I’m wondering he’s dong this despite he is the one who ended it.. other than he hasn’t moved on

[Danny_dan92]

Makes sense, you’ll get over it eventually.

[Asker]

Well why do you think he still likes my stories everyday even tho he ended it other than he isn’t moved on..

[Danny_dan92]

He still wants your pussy. To put it as simple as plain English.

[Asker]

Well we never had sex tho..

[Danny_dan92]

Just know when people break up but keep contact, there is a VERY high chance they’re fooling around. While attempting to remain relevant in your life

[Danny_dan92]

Maybe that’s why he left you….

[Danny_dan92]

He’s getting what he wants elsewhere and hoping that when he comes back you give it

[Asker]

He said he was losing hope for our future as long term (guessing it’s our repeated probs conv) and distance.. so he said it made him gradually lose feelings… which is why I’m wondering why he still likes my stories everyday even after he ended it..

[Danny_dan92]

Yeah… aka no sex etc

[Tomislav7]

Thinks you're hot, probably stubborn and hopeful

[Asker]

Wait what? He’s being stubborn and hopeful?

Well he does think I’m not lol, but my stories are about random things like career, family, my selfies, or little small things lol.

[Asker]

Hot*

[Tomislav7]

showing you he still cares for you, probably wants to talk - I don't know when you two last spoke.. Yeah. What was your initial reaction?

[Asker]

Um it has been like almost a week since we ended things… well… why doesn’t he just message me? I told myself if he wants me back, he would at least message me since he was the one who ended it?

[Asker]

I haven’t done anything.. didn’t like any of his stories or message him bc he’s the one who ended it. But I still care.

[Tomislav7]

hmm... I think he wants to but is unsure how you would react. So maybe he's hoping you give him a sign or a message

[Tomislav7]

if he's not interested in rekindling you're relationship then I think he's showing he still cares about you regardless that things didn't work out. in my opinion

[Asker]

Oh? Do you think he might wanna get back with me? I was happy at first with false hope maybe he wanna get back together but I feel like if he really make it work… he would message me… do you think there’s a high chance he might wanna get back together even tho he ended it sayin he saw no hope for us; therefore he was gradually losing feelings and the distance?

[Asker]

Sighs yeah… 😔😔😔 even tho I like that he still likes my stories everyday… I wish he would say something… but I’m scare to do anything bc I think it’s more of the second one… that he may not wanna rekindle things 💔

[Tomislav7]

Its okay, give it time. If itll happen itll happen. 😘

[Asker]

Should I just wait? 🥺do you think there’s a higher or lower chance he wants to make up?

[Tomislav7]

I dont know im not him lol. Just with what info I have I gave you the upside downside. Waiting around doesn't do anything, you can wait while you live ur life. You can always text him to see why

[Asker]

Sighs I wish I feel courageous enough but I can’t message him.. he ended things.. I told him I’ll respect his decision, let him go, and move on…

I just didn’t expect him to still show small attention everyday… it’s bittersweet… I told myself it’s temporary until he finds someone else…

I don't know I think ima just work on moving on cuz there’s no clear sign 😔

[Tomislav7]

Best to you

[Asker]

Thank you for your kindness 😭❤️‍🩹

[Tomislav7]

You can always talk to me if you need, hmu on ig?

[LoveGuy242]

Maybe he still likes you

[In_Trance]

Stop paying attention to your ex