Should I block him?

[Anonymous]

I loved a man for close to 3 years, I finally set a boundary by saying what I need & he ghosted me. Now 2 months later, he's watching my story/posts. I thought it was petty to block him at first, but now I question why he should still get access to me & watching my life after discarding me. Thoughts? Block him or just let him watch?

[Screenwriter]

I'd block him. Sounds creepy to me, like some sort of voyeurism. Just a gut feeling.

[Asker]

Thank you

[Anonymous]

Move on. You may have loved him, but he did t love you the same way. You were just a stepping stone, nothing special.

[molonski2]

He didn't like your " boundaries " .. very small minded to block , change your boundaries.

[Asker]

The relationship/connection is done, so the only boundary I could change is letting him see my posts. I’m open to other options if you have any

[beenherebefore]

I agree with you why allowing him access to you? Block immediately.

[bowenw]

Block all ways he can follow or contact you.

[loveyouoak]

Block him, and when you feel better, you can decide whether to unblock him.

[Mariogirl09]

Block him so you can move on

[Asker]

I have to move on regardless - thank you for your input

[Iron_Man]

NoBlckng

[Asker]

Can I ask why you think that?

[Iron_Man]

I’m not a fan of blocking it’s rude and disrespectful. It’s like you’re cutting somebody out of your life. And the poor person can be become nice and get it together they want to message you. But then he can’t because he’s blocked.

[Asker]

If he has my number, is it still a bad idea to block him on social media?

[Iron_Man]

Yeah, just unblock him work it out