I broke up with my boyfriend of two years because he told me he needed a break and I said:
For me, it needs to be all or nothing because I can't keep having people in and out of my life. I need someone who can love me completely and fully, through the good and the bad. It hurts too much for me to stay in a relationship where I don't feel fully loved and secure. I need stability. I want a home and a family, and I wanted that with you. But I don't think you're ready for that right now, and unfortunately I can't keep waiting for something you're not ready to give me. I care about you deeply, but I have to choose what I need for myself.
He probably didn't even read it cause he just responded focusing on the fact I am on hinge already and told me it's disgusting.
Should I reply and say:
You’re the one who told me you don't want to be together. You’ve also been clear that you’re not ready for me to live with you, marriage, or children. I’m not going to wait around for someone who can’t even decide if they want to be with me or not.
Or just ignore him?
For me, it needs to be all or nothing because I can't keep having people in and out of my life. I need someone who can love me completely and fully, through the good and the bad. It hurts too much for me to stay in a relationship where I don't feel fully loved and secure. I need stability. I want a home and a family, and I wanted that with you. But I don't think you're ready for that right now, and unfortunately I can't keep waiting for something you're not ready to give me. I care about you deeply, but I have to choose what I need for myself.
He probably didn't even read it cause he just responded focusing on the fact I am on hinge already and told me it's disgusting.
Should I reply and say:
You’re the one who told me you don't want to be together. You’ve also been clear that you’re not ready for me to live with you, marriage, or children. I’m not going to wait around for someone who can’t even decide if they want to be with me or not.
Or just ignore him?
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Ignore him he's being immature its not worth going back and forth with him. Just move on
lol 😂. You cheated. I don’t think the relationship was real , if it was u wouldn’t have
Being on a dating app after breaking up is not cheating
Well , you moving on to other people means you have ended it for good. Why tf do you go back to your previous partner? Can’t find better?
Is what he said true? That's the complete opposite of what you said. Regardless, if you don't want to be with him then there's no point in responding.
Ignore
Ignore him