How to reply to this or I should leave it?

[Anonymous]

Red text is me/black is him (online friend) context : we used to talk daily, he used to he so kind with me I don't know why he suddenly stopped texting Goodmorning texts, he started to reply very slow , he helped me when i was lonely and had family problems so he became a part of my day, i enjoyed his company even if its online, but what hid did really affected my mental health, im an overthinker, when he is online of different apps and reply after hours i started to overthink and become sad, i think he lost interest, i can't do this anymore, i did not reply since yesterday and its kinda affecting me, i hate to ignore people and hate to get ignored too:(

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Edit : i asked how to reply to this not lessons on how mature or immature i am

[spartan55]

Guys get bored of texting very quickly. It doesn't matter how hot or interesting you are. If you can remember this, and adjust your communication accordingly, you will be WAY more successful in your relationships.

[Asker]

How?

[spartan55]

How what?

[Asker]

How to adjust my communication accordingly?

[spartan55]

Text as little as possible. At the minimum do phone calls.

[Asker]

The problem is i hate phone calls they make ne anxious

[spartan55]

What about face to face interaction?

[Asker]

He lives fat away if you mean the friend i talk about, but we were planning to meet in the future if i get a job

[spartan55]

Sounds like a waste of time.

[Anonymous]

You're extremely immature. People have lives outside of you and they don't need to drop what they're doing all the time to appease you. You having less going on in your life and more time to answer quickly doesn't mean that people aren't giving you what you deserve. Do him a favor and leave him alone.

[Asker]

Edit : i asked how to reply to this not lessons on how mature or immature i am

[Opinion Owner]

And I said leave him alone. Translation: don't reply. He deserves to have adults as friends, not spoiled entitled children.

[Asker]

Hahaha seems like you know him

[HelpfulWoman]

god you are a nut job.
its not his job to accommodate your need for a therapist

[Anonymous]

You explained yourself. That's more than 99% of women would even care to do. If I'm that guy I'm appreciating you taking the time to explain it like that. I don't think there's anything more to say.

[JesseP1nk]

How you should respond?

"Im an entitled bitch and probably end up lonely forever because everyone MUST do what i want, when i want. #girlpower"

[Asker]

Ur mum is a bitch

[JesseP1nk]

Yeah you can replay that too for him

[Asker]

He knows it already

[thomastown]

Guys are not good texters.

[Asker]

He wasn't like this

[In_Trance]

Stop texting and start calling

[Asker]

So funny like your pfp ahhah