What can I do after my entire life ends?

[Anonymous]

So a messy break up with my cheating now ex fiancee has left my life totally fucked. Our house is up for sale I had to rehome all my animals except my dog I don't have a vehicle anymore and I'm crashing at a friend's house I still have a full time job but I just feel so hopeless because I don't even have family to rely on. I'm not sure what steps I can take to start my life over. My entire life just went up in smoke 🤣🤣

[NoDecision]

What happened to your family that you can't depend on them for help? Did you go with this guy after they warned you about him maybe? Did you not have your own car? You should realize some money from the sale of the house I would think. That should help you to start over a little at least.

[Asker]

That's only if the house sells and no my family is drug addicts alcoholics rapists and such I won't go back nothing can make me I'll be homeless first

[Anonymous]

well at least you got out of the relationship early enough to still have time left in life to find someone else eventually , think perhaps you will realise that sooner than later , but still think its best to leave a bad situation than stay in it forever , would you really want to be married to that guy forever?

[Asker]

Love isn't my concern I give the fuck up on that I need to provide a life for me and my dog forget a relationship

[Staximus]

. You lucked out by not getting into a shit marriage at a young age. You still have most of your life ahead of you. Next time live with a guy for at least a year before getting married, and don’t buy a house with a guy until after you’re married.

[Asker]

Didn't have a choice and we lived together for 8 years

[Staximus]

Yeah you did have a choice. Some stupid guy is not your entire life, shit happens. You’re still alive, you’ll get over it. Take a breather, and get up and start moving forward. And don’t turn your new place into a zoo again, how many animals does one person actually need?

[Asker]

It was a homestead I had goat's chickens geese I made cheese had a garden. And I didn't have much choice I could either buy a house with him or continue being abused by my family neither option was good

[NathanDavis]

it might not feel like it right now... but you're way better off

just go forward... it's a matter of time now

[Anonymous]

Be glad that happened in you 20's plenty of time to rebuild. I didn't start even making good decisions till my mid 20's. And i didn'r really even get my life in order till my early 30's.

Imagine this 💩 happening at 40 or 50.

[Asker]

Yah yah Head up and what not I'm 26 and have nothing no life no future just me and my 13 year old dog just what the fuck do I even do now

[Opinion Owner]

One day at a time one battle at a time. You got a job. And way to get there i assume. Secure a car, next secure housing and then start building.

I'm 50 no life, no future, and no reason to get up every day but i still do. Because god still has plans for me or i wouldn't be here. Sometimes faith is all you have.

[Asker]

I don't have faith I'm just spiteful and have a dog to provide for

[Opinion Owner]

Well, maybe now is time to start developing it.

[Asker]

I never felt more alienated than when I attended church. Church camp was even worse. I'll stick to caring for my dog she's always been there for me

[Opinion Owner]

I didn't tell you to go to church. Whether you want to do that is up to you. You can cultivate a relationship with God without going to church. Church is just recomme ded for fellowship. I wouldn't discourage that.

[dudeinohio]

Been there. It gets better; but requires time and a lot of work. First, get an apartment close to work. Then get a used beater, unless you can afford a larger car payment. Relax... life isn't over.

[Asker]

Sure fucking feels like it

[dudeinohio]

Yes it will feel like that for a while; but you'll get through it.

[Asker]

I'm just not sure what to do

[Abbycado]

Pick yourself up and start again. That’s what people have to do sometimes, sadly.

[RedInnocent69]

Hope for reincarnation

[leahzrc]

Pray