Does it drive you crazy if your ex-gf ignores you after a breakup?

[Anonymous]

All relationship advice sites say that when a girl appears to get over being dumped really easy and is enjoying life ...that the ex boyfriend will desire her again and be bothered that she can be happy without him.

Is this true?

Does it bother you if a girl seems completely unaffected by a breakup?

[ngreenw]

Bit of both. A reality check says that they have a life, and if you're not together they're not going to sit around forever upset about it and not actually doing anything else. I think it might be partly knowing so much about them and then not knowing a lot at all is a bit unnerving, a control thing maybe. I've had it loads before where I see exes are doing other stuff, but then just reality check that we split up for a good reason and that I have a life too. But I guess it depends on the person and how they see these things, and if they reality check.

Kind of depends who was the dumpee and who was dumped too. If I was the dumpee, above applies. If I was dumped, it would be a bother, but it would be a little more bitterness (that we were supposed to be in a mutual relationship that she obviously wasn't that attached to) rather than desire.

[wallaber]

Yes that can happen, but in my last case, it doesn't bother me at all that she's completely over it. I'm definitely not making any effort to contact her and quite frankly, I don't really want to, I've just found someone so so much better and I'd personally just like to forget about her.

[Itsfate83]

It can depend on the level of love a guy felt for her and how the relationship ended. I went through that and i saw my ex do things with her new bf that i wanted to, it made me angry but i realized that i rather see her happy than becoming a slut and doing stupid stuff. To me a girl who seems completely unaffected from a relationship with me or moves on too fast shows me she wasn't the one for me

[Anonymous]

thats not true at all...Actually its the opposite. women tend to hold one more emotions then guys..as soon that new piece of ass come along sh*t forget our ex

[Anonymous]

No, the exact opposite. That's when you come to realize it's time to put her in the "people I use to know " category.