Should I confront my ex about lying?

[Anonymous]

I talk with my ex all the time. I am still in love with her and trying to get her back, but she constantly lies to me. She has an online blog that she writes anonymously but she knows I know what it is. The blog outlines all of her dating trials and tribulations. Recently she told me about this guy she met. After telling me that everything with him was just friendly and she was taking it slow, I looked at her blog and found out it was much more than that. She was basically lying to me about everything. Her post talked about all the things she'd "done" with this guy and all this is after telling me that nothing like that was going to happen h anytime soon because she was taking it slow. BS! Like I said, she knows I have access to this blog, but she's also told me that she didn't want me reading it. Honestly, who could resist? I'm fed up with the lying, but since we aren't dating does this mean she has the right to lie? Should I confront her?

[audreylovesyou]

She doesn't deserve you. You deserve someone better. Someone who won't lie at you and won't break your trust. Someone who won't drive you nuts. You have no right to confront her for obviously you don't have a role in her life right now. Sorry to say that. She knows that you know about her blog but still she is putting up those things on that blog. It's an obvious indication that she don't care about what you feel or even think of her. Just move on. Find someone better. You won't be happy with her if she's always lying.

[-Darling]

No she doesn't have any right to lie to you just because your not dating. If a friend of yours lied to you, wouldn't you be upset? What I would do is bring it up with her, also since its just a blog she might be exaggeratingand stuff to get more readers, so don't jump into conclusions without talking to her. Good luck! :o)

[JayCutler]

so ask yourself this question...is this someone you really want to be with? I know it hurt bro trust me because I know but you keep shooting yourself in the foot by keep looking at her blog. how long where you dating for?

[Asker]

See, she has told me about guys before, back when we first broke up and we were, in her words, "best friends" but now that isn't telling me the truth, I don't know if its because she doesn't want to hurt me or turn me away. And it is in a setting that it is supposed to be anonymous and she did tell me not to read it...we were together for like 6 months then both went through some personal problems and she couldn't keep up the relationship anymore.

[JayCutler]

yeah two reason..she might just want to hide sh*t from you by not telling you the truth because she don't want to hurt you but if I were you I would just leave it alone and go to NC fast

[glamphotog]

How do you know what she is writing in her blog is the truth and what she's telling you is the lie? It could be the other way around. Just food for thought.