Guys: do you still do favours for your ex girlfriend if you don't like them anymore?

[Anonymous]

Would you help them? Do you still care for them? If they ask for favours would you do it for them? I mean if you don't have feelings for them anymore.

[Anonymous]

With the exception of one girl, who was basically just an evil c*nt, I would.

It's not that I have feelings for them, so much as I don't have any negative feelings for them. I never call or talk to them for the most part (one or two exceptions), but I don't hate them or dislike them. So if one of them called me up out of the blue and asked me for a favour, I'd say sure. I have no reason not to.

[Asker]

If your ex girlfriend accidently dialed your number would you keep listening on the line for 4mins? My ex boyfriend did that last mon. I wasn't talking or anything, my phone was in my handbag and I didn't realize it called him

[Opinion Owner]

4 minutes? No. I'd usually hang up once they didn't answer, and then call them back.

Pocket rings can happen, I know that. But if I call her back, the phone should ring or vibrate, and I'll tell her her phone was unlocked and dialled me, that she might have dialled other people too, and to lock her phone. No harm, no foul.

But to be honest with you, no ex of mine should have my number in her cell phone.

And there's no way I'd listen to an unresponsive phone for 4 minutes.

[TheDigitalSaint]

All ex-girlfriends are out of my life completely. They are ex's for a reason. I find it easier to keep distance for all reasons, thereby allowing me to start new relationships without baggage. So no, an ex-girlfriend would have been deleted from my phone already. Unless she came banging on my door, I would cut off all contact.

[3336PS]

How would you feel if she does come and knock on your door? I am considering. However we never dated. Just "friends".

[TheDigitalSaint]

If an ex came to my door, I'd listen, but expect a very good reason as to why she's coming to me for help. I don't like on-and-off again relationships. As for "just friends", a female friend can call me at any time she wishes. I generally keep fewer female friends, as girls I find attractive, I'm not going to consider them "friendships". Those are considered girls I'd like to date.

[jimmy217]

really depends...i helped my ex get her car out of the ditch in the last blizzard we had because I was the only one who answered my phone and I wasn't going to leave her in the ditch...but if she asked me to help her move or somthing like that id tell her to f*** off.

[adamretex81]

depends on how the break up went and why. also if they treated you really well during the relationship, then I would help and remain freinds and do favours.

[martyfellow]

Sure, if they need help, I'm willing to do it, just as I would for any friend, so long as it's not manipulative on her part, trying to make a new guy jealous, or getting even somehow.

[Cantremember]

Really depends on how the breakup went and why. Would not help a cheater who dumped me really ugly for the guy she cheated with.

[enigma5432]

yeah, there's always going to be that connection

[Anonymous]

yes...she's just my ex, not my killer...