I'm so tired of thinking about her.

[kayitli]

it has been almost 2 months since she has left me, but I cannot stop thinking about her, I'm so tired of thinking about her that I started to pray God to give me one day to rest, to stop thinking about her, I can't focus anything , what should I do?

[Anzoz]

Dude, first of all, this is a "girls ask guys" site, so this feels a little weird answering, but I will out of charity.

I too, know exactly how you feel. It sucks. That's why they call it "heartbreak." but it could be worse: remember it is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all. Enjoy the feeling.

I've been going through the same for over a year. No, it doesn't get better. I wish it would. Hopefully you will meet someone who will eradicate the feelings of her and you will move on. Good news it that this means you get to date a lot. Bad news is that each time the date fails, or the woman lets you down somehow, you will pine for the "original" one, the one who broke your heart.

Just keep moving along, something will turn up. Focus on the negatives of the former flame, remember how bad she was, or any faults she may have had. Sorry for your loss...

[Dragunuv]

Man I know how you feel I use to be like that until I realized there are a lot of woman out there who are ten times better than your ex. You have to learn to let it go I know you don't like reading this or hearing this from many of your friends but you have to learn to move on. I remember when I was in love with a dominican woman who was my former high school teacher and how I use to always think about her until my head started to hurt. And I couldn't sleep I had to take advil and bear aspprin to sleep. even though she never loved me the way I loved her. I realized she wasn't worth it. And you know what I'm glad I never had her because I realized how ugly and disgusting she was .

Especially her attitude I thank jesus that I never had her and I'm glad to say that she is never welcomed inside my heart anymore.

P.S TIME IS YOUR BEST FRIEND AND JESUS.

[kayitli]

thanks for the comment, I know I should go on, and I have tried to date with a new one, had dinner together , but I was like acting, could not even look the girl , but I know I just need time, by the time a better one will make me forget her

[Dragunuv]

have hope you should focus on yourself and loook at her negative flaws that she has. there are 10 woman for each man don't kill yourself for one or any focus on your paper better yourself.

[Anonymous]

Go do something fun, like surfing (I like to surf so that's what I would do). Or try something new, take a class, it might make you focus on something other than your ex.

[kayitli]

thanks, I'm trying but not able to focus new things, time will help I think

[Anonymous]

I am trying hard to stop thinking of this guy I have strong feelings for. Some days are good, some days are bad. I keep myself busy so. Don't think of him as much!

[kayitli]

thanks, I'm trying to keep myself busy not to think about HER , but it is not easy

[bassman]

I'm in your shoes right now myself. Takes time, and when you're ready to look for other girls..(sooner is better than later).and you begin finding other girls...then the girl on your mind will fade away. Don't let another person have so much power over you. Try to turn your emotions about her from saddness to anger. When you get angry...you won't care so much.

[kayitli]

thanks for the comment,

[bassman]

You're welcome

[patoot10]

you need to meet new girl

[kayitli]

thanks, tried that but not ready yet I think, just need more time