Is he acting distant or am I paranoid?

[lou21]

Ok guys and girls I really do need some help here I am certainly starting to go out of my mind. So I've been dating this guy for 4 months now, we knew each other before as we worked in a gym together but we got back in contact around July! Its amazing how well we get along were on the same wave length and everyone who sees us together always says how wicked we are together. We got talking when he come back from kavos and then he went Ibiza for 4 days with the lad and keep in mind he called me every day he was there and texting me as well. (he even brought back a key ring) HE WAS ON A LADS HOLIDAY! right then he won my heart. On sept 25th he went away in the RAF I am incredibly proud of him and I am a very supportive girl as my brother served 7 years in the infantry ANYWAY. 3 weeks into training everything was fine he was saying the usual stuff, called me every night for 3 weeks. BUT BAM! from for the next 2 weeks he was acting different, the way he texted was different, he would skip a day or two before he rang me. I pulled him up about it and he said training was hard that's all. week 5 he come home on a Friday had 2 texts from him that night and that was it. and all I did was see him for an hour before he went back to camp. he didn't even try anything with me :/ before he went I said about us being in a relationship but he said ' I don't wanna be a bag of **** and say yes but then I have to break up with you because I can't handle the distance' BUT were doing everything a couple would do in our situation! HELP! this is killing me

[Justthinkingaloud]

It sounds like the long distant relationship is hard for him because he doesn't want to hold you back from being with someone who can be there for you, since he can't being stuck leaving all the time. So maybe the slowly getting more distant is his way of lightly breaking up as not to break your heart.