My ex-bf's girlfriend walks around in her underwear?

[oranges123]

Okay so my ex-bf and my current boyfriend live together along with another guy they know. Its happened twice where my ex's girlfriend walked around in a shirt and her cheeky underwear. Once she walked right in front of my boyfriend. I'm not jealous, she does have a good butt. But it's a respect thing. I don't run around wearing no shirt. She has a good butt and no boobs I have big boobs and an okay butt lol. So I know what she's doing. I was thinking I would give her a taste of her own medicine and wear a sheer top super low so you can see a bit of my bra. I don't really talk to her boyfriend, I certainly don't flirt. My boyfriend has told me she is jealous of me. I have no idea why, I'm not doing anything! What should I do?

[CrissyBlue]

Keep having respect for yourself (ALTHOUGH, I'm almost sure she would hate it if you did that).

She's clearly looking for attention. No normal person does that because they want to be "comfortable." If that were the case, she would do that in a park or other public places.

Maybe you should point it out. You know? When everyone is together there say "hey, why do you always walk around in your underwear around a group of guys, you're so brave girl haha."

Point it out. Give her the attention she wants. It shouldn't embarrass her too much. (Be careful, though, you may seem like a b..ch if you're super mean about it).

[Jasmine92]

I was in similar situation once but unfortunately I had nothing to combat against my exes new girlfriend. She is a thin little Colombian girl with straight jet black hair an enormous rear end. I mean she had one of the nicest bubble butts I think that ever existed. I was super jealous but I was on the lease and didn’t want to pay to get out of it. Of course we didn’t get along and she would strut around the apartment every chance she got wearing the tiniest little cheeky underwear and tight tank tops. Her panties would always ride up her crack because they were two sizes too small but she never bothered to fix them.

[Account]

This is exactly the reason why men don't take us seriously. We compete with each other all the time instead of conversing like normal human beings. Have you ever tried to tell her that it bothers you? Talk to her calmly. Don't participate in "who is the most promiscuous woman" contest. You don't have to stoop to her level.

[THChowder]

WTF? How are you okay with this? And on top of that, you would even want to compete with her?

What should you do? Beat her ass, tell her to have some damn respect and put on some pants.

[jacquesvol]

You may not feel it that way but some girls just don't care if they are seen in their undies. At 16 my wife wasn't a 'slut' (she never was!) but coming home from HS, she'd undress to bra and panties, to change in a hurry in presence of her mom , dad and best male friend. "nothing more to be seen than on the beach, if you can't stand it, don't look" she would reply if her dad said something about it.

One of my female friends did the same (and more) at college. They just didn't care. Others wouldn't show an inch of cleavage or sear shorts.

[jacquesvol]

*wear shorts* typo

[yaddayaddayadda02]

Well there's really not much you CAN do. You're a guest in the house, just like she is. Neither of you live there. She may not be trying to make you jealous at all, and just is very comfortable walking around that way.

[Anonymous]

Dress really hot showing your t*ts off, all the guys will go crazy especially your ex, because if she has small t*ts, I can assure you he misses them, and she's totally jealous and insecure about her small boobs. Post a pic of yor chest so we can see.

[oranges123]

I hate to stoop to her level but its not something I can talk to her about. lol and no I'm not posting pictures nice try though ;) didn't say I had big boobs to fish for that. Just wanted it to be understood why she is doing what she's doing.

[Opinion Owner]

You can't blame me for trying girl,lol. But seriously, big t*ts and a decent ass, beats a great ass and no t*ts, put her in check.

[aMuse]

Why did jump from one guy, to his friend that lives with him? Why are you playing who is the bigger ho? Oh never mind...

[oranges123]

Lol it may appear that way but it's not. I liked my current boyfriend before. I just didn't have the courage to talk to him. He was a security officer for a store where I live. His friend worked there too and started talking to me. We went pit for a month, he dumped me when I wouldn't have sex with him. So he didn't care about me.

[Flippydaydream]

I would want her to pay, id go with the showing off your chest plan

[Anonymous]

Move out. Find a place of your own. I dont CARE how you make it happen but move out!!!

[Izumiblu]

Ignore it because it doesn’t matter?