Polls: Break Up & Divorce

So my boyfriend and I had huge fight, he felt unappreciated and taken for granted by me so he’s asked for some distance. He said he’s okay with texting but he also needs some space. I’ve given him space and haven’t texted him to let him cool down.

But back then when he’s asked for space before, he used to say that he wanted me to reach out first. So I’ve been thinking to give him the entire 24 hours alone, then I’ll send him a care package with his favorite food the next day. I won’t text him, I‘ll just write him a letter acknowledging my mistakes and my commitment to make it up to him. I feel like there’s no pressure to respond back if it was a hand written letter. What do you think?

So I recently saw his ex posted a photo of them acting all cozy at a wedding together (the wedding has the exact date from last Sunday) and this raised my suspicion that there might be cheating going on… I asked him about it and he seemed honest but I’m not sure who to trust.

Would you consider these characteristics/things to be a sign of potential infidelity?

• Wasn’t defensive when confronted, willing to talk about it with me the entire night
• Gave me his social media passwords
• Gave me his phone to look through
• His mom told me that he was home Sunday morning and he spent the rest of the day (of the supposed wedding) with me
• Came over the next day because I asked to talk about this again, he listened and answered all questions
• Got pissed at his ex and completely sided with me, because she has a habit of posting old photos of them

Some red flags 🚩:

• The photo of the wedding has the date of last Sunday (but then why would he be willing to take photos with her knowing that she’ll post them online, and he knows I can see her posts)
• The wedding ceremony was held early morning to noon. His mom left his house at 11 and he only came to see me at 1:30 PM
• Her ex’s friends also reposted the photo on their accounts (but his ex used to post old photos of them acting as if they were still together)
• Last year he was caught still talking to his ex, but he has sinced changed and cut her off (from what he’s shown me the past year)

So long story short I had dated a guy who was a cheater and liar 6 years ago…. he cheated on me with the woman he ended up making his next girlfriend and she was always hating on me and accusing me of going after her man to the point where she would write false statuses online about me and spread lies about me….

she dumped my ex /her ex and now she has a new guy that she moved on with and I myself moved on a long time ago as well….

so if she’s with a new guy now and saw what an asshole our ex was, then why does she still hate me and look for negative stuff to spread about me? Is she psycho?

It’s odd because I thought he’d block back instantly.

and how long was it until they contacted you? Days, weeks, years?

Had a 8yr relationship with my ex ( first relationship) broke up 2 years back. Now I'm with someone else and it's great. There are some moments when I still wonder if ex is doing fine n how much he must have changed after this long or I would just recall my struggles in the relationship.

Is it normal? I don't have much of "ex" experience tbh.