Are you usually the one initiating break ups?

[beenherebefore]

I'm a woman and I'm usually the one initiating the break up

I'm a woman I'm usually the heartbroken one

I'm a guy and I'm usually the one initiating the break up

I'm a guy I'm usually the heartbroken one

[DishLady]

I've broken things up with a few guys in my time, though we technically weren't "dating". There are some guys you just can't be friends with, you know? Similarly, there are a couple of guys who have declared that it's challenging to be around me and still try to have a relationship so they stepped away and we don't speak. It is what it is.

[D_Bone_Steak]

I'm the guy that is initiating the breakup... that was my vote. Why?

I'm not desperate, I don't need her for much more than being a cum dumpster. So if the relationshit becomes too taxing for what ever reason, I think it's best to end it instead of having arguments/fights over bullshit and amicably move on with an open door to fuck later on if we want. Why?

It's probably because she's out of that honeymoon phase and her normal shit tests have progressed to serious shit tests... and that means she just wants to fuck other people in my mind. She's starting to compare me to her other options. I don't have time to deal with that because I'm busy doing my own thing.

[YourFutureEx]

Only if she tried to cross her limit in the relationship. The limit I'm talking about here isn't about how she treats me, but how she treats the relationship. If it's a fling and she tried to be exclusive or official, or if she tried to ask me to invest much more than I'm willing to like phone/video calls, I'm out.

But more often, it's the women initiating the breakups, which is common for all of us. Girls just have it way easier as I have observed.

[Genie23]

Yes... After getting hurt more than few times. Once the trust breaks there's no point staying in a relationship with that person. When I love, I love with all my heart. If I initiate a break-up it means I've put up with so many things (that I shouldn't have) that I've reached a point and said "no, this isn't going to get better. I need to end this. It will be good for both of us"

[Nikki1989]

Yes, but only because every man I have been with has never wanted to let go or ever try to resolve the problems within the relationship. This is why so many women are the ones to start divorce proceedings. Men would rather do nothing and let problems fester into something far worse.

[serious]

I have always been single. Hence not applicable.

However, if you are referring to just relations with people like friendship, acquaintances etc then yes the moment I know the other person is wrong then I instantly break contact with them.

[sawno]

No, i'm loyal and tend to only go for a relationship if I know I won't leave.

[patrick994]

Generally yes, if I feel bad, I am the one who leaves my partner and breaks up with her.

[strateguy632]

Huh heart broken? I get dumped many times a year, you expect it. Make the relationship last as many weeks as possible, then look for someone else.

[Zack-Bann]

I’ve been on both ends
Although only once the receiver of the breakup


The other times I did the breaking


But honestly neither position is fun

[conanbdetective]

In the short term relationships I've had, I've always initiated it. But in the long term ones, it's either we just fall out of it or my partner initiated it.

[NathanDavis]

I didn't do break-up... no hearts broken, fortunately

[Viola_456]

Yeah and im happy for that tbh, it sucks being hearth broken one...

[anon1903]

Yeah lol. I don't see the point in continuing something if the other person and I aren't blending

[MemeSupreme]

yeah, its annoying but i guess it's better than being heartbroken lol

[Anonymous]

If two people do not match well that's what it boils down to. End it before someone says or does something hurtful, then walk away as healthy adults.

[LiamJHayden]

I am. I put up with zero nonsense in romantic relationships.

[Jennz6]

I don’t really get started in a relationship, guys want to date me but I’m too busy for that

[Anonymous]

I never had a break up, because I was never in a relationship, all of my loves were unrequited.

[Sam1133]

Yup always but they beg me to stay...
I just block them n move on

[eagle1951]

I think it goes both ways. sometimes the Guy sometimes the Woman

[Kokishin]

I have end both of the relationships in my past.

[queenofcardio]

Yes.. I've never been dumped

[LiaRaven]

Not always

[Chocolatetwopointtwo]

yeah

[wkhan_87]

No , never