Another point I forgot to mention. People now are trying to promote promiscuity and make it socially acceptable. The problem is that human beings need to place limits on their freedom. 50-100 year back it was frowned upon (probably for similar reasons as listed above). If things are headed the way they are now, then what's stopping incest from becoming socially acceptable, say 50 years from now? People argue and say "Well it's just sex! It's two people consenting to each other! We all NEED sex!". If you think about it, incestuous couples could use pretty much this same argument to justify themselves. Hence, we need to draw clear boundaries.
Who is trying to promote promiscuity? Who is trying to make it "socially acceptable"? Let me first say, removing the stigma does not mean they are promoting it. There are plenty of things you do every day that at one point were frowned upon or downright forbidden. Did you wait to have sex until you were married? Probably not. But if I take your opinion and how far you've ran with it beyond the bounds of common sense, you'd have to be a hypocrite to say you shouldn't bare the scarlet letter for being a slut. After all, pre-marital sex is sin. In Biblical times, you'd be stoned to death in front of your entire neighborhood for having sex before marriage. If you're a girl. Boys? Nobody cares what they do. Back to you running past the bounds of common sense. How in the world does not judging people for having casual sex turn to incest? You want the government to police our sex lives? Do you want them barging into your bedroom when you're alone? Slippery slope! I'm only using your own logic
I used to have one night stands, but not much interest in me now that I’m pregnant. lol
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It sounds more like you want hot chicks to “save themselves” for less attractive men, because “omg, their hotness makes me feel like I’d do anything for them and I deserve them for that.”
hehe, pornstars are hot, would you marry one? so what you said make nonsense, i also wanna spend all my life with one person that doesn't mean i am not attractive or i can't attract girls, on the contrary i was asked out by few girls too, but i wasn't interested to take advantage and leave them so i said no ( i didn't love them)
OP and you can have your preferences - that’s not what I’m saying. Instead of just dating the girls who are like him, he complains about them being into attractive men.
lol, who isn't attracted to hot guy or girls, it defiantly has its effects. sorry for misunderstanding your comment. but i thought you think if an attractive woman save herself it means they gonna do it for less attractive men.
Even or especially if you’re with the love of your life, you want your gal to have exciting, good sex with a partner she finds attractive and vice versa - not just give it to you because you folded your socks. THAT is what I’m on about. Sex isn’t just for men.
i didn't mean that a girl or a guy both need sex as much as the other one needs it, i just think its better when both girls and guys wait for the love of their loves so it be a especially thing between them, i wasn't saying men should have sex but women wait
Calm down, bro. You telling a stranger to kill his or her self for giving you some advice shows you have some not so hidden rage issues. Work on that, too.
No. I'll give you some advice. Ima give you a taste of your own medicine. Instead of getting drunk every weekend and sucking dicks, why don't you focus on improving your IQ and becoming more illiterate? That way you'll learn how to make better arguments.
Better arguments? Said the one who's swearing using inappropriate words and has just told a stranger to kill themselves when all she was doing was stating a counter opinion to your original one giving advice at the same time. And then called her illiterate despite you being the one to say "Ima", and the whole words in your mouth thing, when you're the one putting words into her mouth, by saying "trashing all girls", so doesn't that make you a hypocrite?
good, but in some comments you reacted not ok, what you wrote as a take is great but you don't need to react like that to comments, if you are not agree with them
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Another point I forgot to mention. People now are trying to promote promiscuity and make it socially acceptable. The problem is that human beings need to place limits on their freedom. 50-100 year back it was frowned upon (probably for similar reasons as listed above). If things are headed the way they are now, then what's stopping incest from becoming socially acceptable, say 50 years from now? People argue and say "Well it's just sex! It's two people consenting to each other! We all NEED sex!". If you think about it, incestuous couples could use pretty much this same argument to justify themselves. Hence, we need to draw clear boundaries.
Who is trying to promote promiscuity? Who is trying to make it "socially acceptable"? Let me first say, removing the stigma does not mean they are promoting it. There are plenty of things you do every day that at one point were frowned upon or downright forbidden. Did you wait to have sex until you were married? Probably not. But if I take your opinion and how far you've ran with it beyond the bounds of common sense, you'd have to be a hypocrite to say you shouldn't bare the scarlet letter for being a slut. After all, pre-marital sex is sin. In Biblical times, you'd be stoned to death in front of your entire neighborhood for having sex before marriage. If you're a girl. Boys? Nobody cares what they do. Back to you running past the bounds of common sense. How in the world does not judging people for having casual sex turn to incest? You want the government to police our sex lives? Do you want them barging into your bedroom when you're alone? Slippery slope! I'm only using your own logic
@BigGuy8 HAHAHAHA I'm having fun! Pissed? Go ahead, get mad! You don't even realize how foolish you are.
To each their own. I think it's wrong but I'm not gonna try to change my friends over it, it's their life but if they get an STD...
Meh, more for me. Not like I get often enough for that to matter though xD
I agree with you, and I am also against all kinds of casual flings.
I'm abstinent, but I agree 100% that sex should be reserved for actual relationships.
At least if you're going to have sex before marriage.
I'm not opposed to casual sex as long as everyone's smart and safe about it while not hurting anyone of course.
But yeah casual hookups get old when that's all you're getting.
I used to have one night stands, but not much interest in me now that I’m pregnant. lol
It sounds more like you want hot chicks to “save themselves” for less attractive men, because “omg, their hotness makes me feel like I’d do anything for them and I deserve them for that.”
... since you don’t mention guys’ behavior.
hehe, pornstars are hot, would you marry one? so what you said make nonsense, i also wanna spend all my life with one person that doesn't mean i am not attractive or i can't attract girls, on the contrary i was asked out by few girls too, but i wasn't interested to take advantage and leave them so i said no ( i didn't love them)
OP and you can have your preferences - that’s not what I’m saying. Instead of just dating the girls who are like him, he complains about them being into attractive men.
He literally complains, “girls... only want to have sex with men who they find attractive”
But I’ll bet it’s thise girls’ looks that captured his interest, otherwise he’d just move on to the girls not sleeping around and be done with it.
lol, who isn't attracted to hot guy or girls, it defiantly has its effects. sorry for misunderstanding your comment. but i thought you think if an attractive woman save herself it means they gonna do it for less attractive men.
Even or especially if you’re with the love of your life, you want your gal to have exciting, good sex with a partner she finds attractive and vice versa - not just give it to you because you folded your socks. THAT is what I’m on about. Sex isn’t just for men.
i didn't mean that a girl or a guy both need sex as much as the other one needs it, i just think its better when both girls and guys wait for the love of their loves so it be a especially thing between them, i wasn't saying men should have sex but women wait
your anonymity don't give you the right to talk like that to a girl bro, be respectful even if she said something against your will
You sound like such a swell guy. Looks like I hit close to home.
Here’s a tip, Romeo. Make monogamy sound sexy, not like eating a bowel of lukewarm porridge every day and being grateful for not starving.
You need to reframe how even you look at it. Instead of thinking,
“Wahhh, hot chicks won’t have to settle for me because they have too many options.”
Frame yourself as a great lover - take care of your body, wear clothes that fit, get a haircut, read She Comes First, etc.
THEN hold out for Miss Right and enjoy each other.
Calm down, bro. You telling a stranger to kill his or her self for giving you some advice shows you have some not so hidden rage issues. Work on that, too.
No. I'll give you some advice. Ima give you a taste of your own medicine. Instead of getting drunk every weekend and sucking dicks, why don't you focus on improving your IQ and becoming more illiterate? That way you'll learn how to make better arguments.
Better arguments? Said the one who's swearing using inappropriate words and has just told a stranger to kill themselves when all she was doing was stating a counter opinion to your original one giving advice at the same time. And then called her illiterate despite you being the one to say "Ima", and the whole words in your mouth thing, when you're the one putting words into her mouth, by saying "trashing all girls", so doesn't that make you a hypocrite?
@19magic https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ByC8sRdL-Ro
She's a typical Western woman.
What I do is having sex with someone, as soon as I feel, as long as I think it can last in time. Till proven otherwise.
You're totally right but today's women are liberated sexually. So they'll have to learn the hard way.
Long as the condom is a reliable brand, happy humping
100 % agree on what you said
Thanks bro! My faith in our generation is slowly starting to get restored.
good, but in some comments you reacted not ok, what you wrote as a take is great but you don't need to react like that to comments, if you are not agree with them
I actually have a dark sense of humor. I knew this post was going to trigger some people so I'd figure I'd have some fun with them.
yes, but you should react respectfully bro,
Good myTake, I agree.
Alrighty then
As far as I’m concerned, life is too short to wait for the “right time” or whatever.
Then why don't you just fuck your mom then if it's sooooooo necessary to have sex now?
What the fuck does that have to do with anything?
Never said necessary, I said fun
Just wrong for anyone to that kind of stuff.
its a sin. todays society is so corrupt. i wish we could go back in time when sex was valued.
spit on da non believer. They don't know the way! click click click
If you don't fuck others will fuck so it's better off to be single 😎
Yes
And it's absolutely wrong
I agree. Sloots are gross