Is being called daddy a turn off?

[DesiBoo]

Lets say a girl called you daddy or papi during sex, or just in general, would it be a turn on or a turn off?

Girls, would you be comfortable calling a guy daddy or papi?

[kheserthorpe]

Would have freaked me out till a couple years ago. Then thanks to either talking with women here or seeing it discussed, I kind of 'got' what it meant to most of them more, and now I'd be fine with it, I might like it, not sure, would have to see.

But it -would- have made me freak out before. So I'm not sure if its something you want to check first, lol.

[DesiBoo]

Well, that's interesting. Lol.

[kheserthorpe]

I mean, when you say it, are you thinking incest, or are you thinking generally daddy is a word for like the big powerful man?

[rthomas43]

Turn on.

Every girl I've been with has called me it lol

[rthomas43]

Thanks for MH :)

[Stacyzee]

I think only the men that like to dominant their women wouldn't mind being called that.

I remember I jokingly used to call my ex. "Daddy" not in a sexual manner but because he always tried to tell me what to do.
He would get very defensive.

However, my current loves when I call him that!

[Anonymous]

"Daddy" is weird to me and I'll never be able to call anyone that WITHOUT thinking of my actual father, which is NOT something I want to do in the bedroom.

I like "Sir" and "Master" - much more submissive and much sexier, to me.

[princesswitch]

I think really sexually dominant men are more likely to enjoy that. Most guys I've been with absolutely loved it when I called them 'daddy' lol. And it does NOT have anything to do with an incest fetish.

[kheserthorpe]

yeah the clarification on the last bit made me a lot more comfortable with the idea.

[DesiBoo]

I personally wouldn't think of it as incesg either.

[DesiBoo]

*incest

[DodgersGM]

Yeah, being called "daddy" would be a major turn-off for me. Maybe even to the point of not wanting to continue, if I'm being completely honest.

I'd probably conjure up an imagine of her father in my head which, for obvious reasons, would not and shout not contribute to my arousal.

There's MANY other names that I'd enjoy my girl calling me in it's place, though.

[jesseray]

Would you want your man to call you 'daughter'? o_O

[DesiBoo]

That's totally different. Lol. It would be awkward to hear, 'Mmm, I like that, daughter.'

[princesswitch]

looooooooooooool

[rthomas43]

Haha I like being called daddy, but a girl called me "dad" once. Instantly soft.

[jesseray]

It's not totally different. "I am your daddy" logically entails "you are my daughter". You cannot have one without the other.

Saying that "daddy" is a way of calling him a big powerful man so it isn't creepy at all is a bit like saying that "daughter" is a way of calling her a sweet petite woman so it isn't creepy at all. I don't buy it.

[DesiBoo]

I've never hears of someone calling there female lover, Daughter. Thats beyond creepy. Daddy is meant in a more 'controlling' way. When you think of a dad, you think of someone in charge, which is why some men like to be called daddy.

Being a daughter means you're just a off spring, or a close family member. Doesn't really show a place. Most females that call a guy daddy say it because they think, dads are controlling. Not to think of incest. Same as guys liking being called daddy.

[jesseray]

"Most females that call a guy daddy say it because they think dads are controlling." Okay, and "Most males that call a girl daughter say it because they think daughters are submissive." To argue that one ('daughter') is creepy and the other ('daddy') isn't is inconsistent. You've gone along with the whole 'daddy' thing for so long that you've become desensitized to just how creepy it really is.

[rthomas43]

It's a double standard that many people are comfortable with. End of story.

[rthomas43]

Logically, you're right. But it still just isn't the same.

[thtdiablo]

As far as I know "papi" and "mami" are regularly used among couples in some Spanish speaking places. I know a few people from Paraguay and Brazil doing so.

For me it would definitely be strange...

[rgb008]

Even thinking about calling my boyfriend daddy, turns me off! haha
Too weird for me.

[AndyWes]

Yes. Definitely. I don't plan on ever having sex with any children I ever have.

[Hidden_P]

Personally no I wouldn't be comfortable. I call my boyfriend daddy as a joke, but we both know it is and I don't say it in the bedroom.

[Anonymous]

Haha no I don't do that. That's way too weird to me.

[ZettaiX]

Turn off, I hate it when girls do that. Kinda freaks me out.

[Anonymous]

I don't like it. I have no child/incest fantasies. It would be a turn off to me I think.

[chidude]

Turn on. I just like being dominant. I don't even think of it as a father thing.

[Thatguy321]

Turn off.. Never want to be called that by anyone other than my future daughter or son or my wife if she's referring me to my kids

[madhatters4]

not a turn on for me. the girl I'm with is my sexual partner I don't want any words that suggest parental stuffs in my sex.

probably a turn off for me

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

I have no problem with it as long as the girls comfortable

[heavensgift2girls]

It wouldn't bother me. I wouldn't even give it a second thought.

[I_Love_Russians]

Yes, that would be a major turn off. I'm not into incest.

[iampikachu]

I would never say papi or daddy in bed😳😳😳 that will remind me of my dad 😨😨

[Anonymous]

I would NEVER call my partner daddy or papi. He's not my father. That's just gross.

[Anonymous]

Yes! It's a massive disgusting and if a girl said that to me I'd be repulsed.

[princesswitch]

"A massive disgusting"

I lol'd :D

[Opinion Owner]

Haha, I really need to learn how to proof read.

[Anonymous]

Yeah it's corny. Also means the girl may have some issues and won't be a good girlfriend.

[Pooplamouse]

Massive turn off. Same goes for "king". It's so cringe, it just kills the mood.