Why do guys like getting called “daddy”?

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razelove · Accepted Answer

Besides the specific daddy, little kink, I'd assume because none of them have kids. Probably don't want them either. I've been into some some reaver territory stuff before, but that one always makes my skin crawl if anyone calls me daddy and is doing so in a sexual way. I mean, hell, I have kids, my first instinct when I hear that is to look up, smile, and talk in a higher pitched voice and get ready for silliness.

It sure as shit isn't to get hard and ready for pounding, just, eww. That's me though, I also don't get butt-sex. Over the years I did notice when getting with younger women they like to say it, like "fuck me harder daddy!" and I like to stop and smack them when they do. Knee-jerk response. Maybe it's a fantasy pushed by women more than men, or by porn? I really don't know on that one. It creeps me right the hell out.

hellionthesagereborn · Accepted Answer

Dominance thing. I like to be called it because I like her being submissive and I like being dominant but I don't like to get all "rapey" with it (for lack of a better term). I like the intimacy and loving sort of dom sub relationship and daddy ties into that. After all as they say a father is a girls first love, he is the one she runs to when scared hurt or just wants to feel like she is loved and I want to be that for the girl I'm with. I want her to need me not just want me, to need me to take care of her and feel safe, I want to have control over her but due to her love and devotion rather then me just being bigger and stronger then her. I guess its a willing submission on her part if that makes sense? So its a more emotional and loving sort of dominance and control, at least for me.

Sentimental_Stoic · Answer

I don't think I'd like to go through any of the opinions but I'll sure put mine.
I AM NOT A GUY.
I hate the use of that word. I have had erotic chats a few times with strangers and the moment they uttered this word, I ended the chat.
This word to me is reserved for my daughter.
This word is sacred.
And I'd never be able to understand or compreshend how people use it in this sense.
I'm not so touchy usually but this is something that really infuriates me, and so the rant.
Good day.

Aeon_Norell · Answer

I tried asking a similar question, but didn't get much to work with... I hope you have better luck.

I personally dislike being called "daddy" as well as "master" or "sir". But "daddy" in particular gives a very uncomfortable feeling throughout my body. Even when used playfully outside sex, it can give me this feeling.

Perhaps the "daddy" thing is nothing more than one manifestation of the Dom/sub dynamic, and we are just overthinking it.

InventorofWarp · Answer

Same reason why I get turned on when she calls me a "good boy" or a "sweet boy" and why I get super turned on when I call her "mommy" or she refers to herself as such.
I have some fucking weird issues man but it makes for some awesome sex talk.

HawkPerception · Answer

I'm actually pretty surprised at the amount of guys saying they don't like it. I think they're the types to not do any freaky dominant sex. I personally love it and I love being aggressive in bed... choking, spanking, slapping, gagging her, etc... Daddy is just a dominant term... like "Teach me how to do this". For me, it brings out a more raw and primal version of myself. I love girls that are kinky in that sense.

TheorionMage · Answer

'Daddy' implies a familial relationship and potentially-'naughty' submissive obedience~
The responsibility for ALL consequences is entrusted to the 'Daddy' freeing the 'Little Girl'!
"FATHER knows BEST"

OlderAndWiser · Answer

I have never had a girl call me daddy (or granddaddy!) but I doubt I would be thrilled by that. I don't want to fantasize that I am having sex with my daughter! (And I don't have a daughter!)

elvitto · Answer

Because it makes us feel good. Like we are powerful and leading and we are in charge. And it makes us feel that you enjoy it that way too.

(That doesn't me that we are tyranical, and feel that we posses the woman like a property)- I know there are some venomous feminist bitches out there.
Most guys want to make it right for their partners.

james_d0007 · Answer

The word Daddy is a sign of Dominant figure just like the actual Dad who is the head of the family.

When you use it - you show your powerless against us and are ready to do anything for Daddy to keep him happy and will never say no to anything that daddy wants or has a desire for. :P

You will be punished for being a naughty girl ;)

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

I like younger women, so If I date one or in a relationship with a younger woman, I would like her to call me "Daddy"... I've had many female friends call me "Daddy" but
It could be also fantasy, role play, etc?

Dragonpurple · Answer

I don't even like that from my daughter, that is usually the I'm in trouble I need your help phrase, in a non sexual way of course. For sexual stuff, I don't like it at all.

Nik1hil · Answer

Because we want that dominating position of protective.. Man in your life..

jerdanro · Answer

It's a sign of submission. It puts the man in a position of (consentual) power over her. It is not (for me at least) about incest or pedophillia.

Anonymous · Answer

If you were my girlfriend most definitely! Something sexy about her in a dress straddling me w me up in her like nothing is going on n no one k ones lol

Finchie40 · Answer

It’s a dominate word , so when she says Daddy it’s a turn on knowing she looks up to me

Red_Arrow · Answer

I don't. But if it is her thing, she can call me that anyway.

ThePolishKnight37 · Answer

I do not like it. Makes me feel like I am doing my daughter. Not into that. That word will turn me off in a second while having sex.

Ripper_E · Answer

No idea. it's weird to me. My friend used to call me daddy all the time. We're no longer friends.

Makeushiver · Answer

Just insecure guys. You don't need to call me anything but "harder"

exitseven · Answer

I can;t think of anyone I know that would like this.

bowenw · Answer

They may believe girls fantasize about their fathers.

SenseiSeptred · Answer

I don't many people refer to me as a father figure that they never had even though I don't have children yet.

andy530 · Answer

It plays on the power difference in the relationship

Wwwyzzerdd · Answer

It’s weird. I have a daughter now and it still feels weird to hear it from others. From her it’s normal but hearing others call me that feels odd.

jasco · Answer

Honestly I don't know anymore. At one point it was for sexual reasons, now it seems more like something more mental

lightbulb27 · Answer

we don't, it's a generalization. I can only guess we like being called <fill in the blank> as it fulfills a need in us.

Unit1 · Answer

I don't like it. But I am flexible. If she is into it, I'll do it.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

I don't, I think it's weird at worst, funny at best if not serious.

MysticDevice · Answer

I never really understood that one. Being called Daddy would just weird me out.

Mr1derful · Answer

No i thinknits weird and creepy, especially having a daughter hehe.

Maspolomas · Answer

It’s never really happened to me so I don’t know how to answer correctly. But it might be cool if a girl did in certain situations

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