My boyfriend finally kissed me! But?

[sammi101xox]

I've been wanting my bf to kiss me for ages (keep in mind that this is my first serious bf so I had never kissed anybody else) he finally kissed me the other day, since then he kissed me like 8 times a day, and tbh it's a but too much... And another problem is that he isn't great at kissing, maybe it's me that's bad, but either way I don't enjoy kissing him... WHAT SHOULD I DO? PLEASE HELP!!!

[GrandmasterTWong]

K Let's say that the 2 of you are going to make out in the near future, think long and hard about how you would like to be kissed. Most guys will follow how the girl kisses to while you're making out do things that you want him to do to u so if u want lip biting, more tongue, more gentle etc. do these things on him. If that doesn't work on him then try to bring it up in a subtle way so let's say the 2 of you are cuddling then sexily whisper in his ear like "You know what i LOVE? I love it when someone gently bites my lip while we make out" he should take your advice if that doesn't work then there's nothing you can do other than just straight up tell him but this is the nicer way of doing it that doesn't burst our bubble

[sammi101xox]

Thanks heaps :)

[GrandmasterTWong]

No problem :) Good Luck!

[MarkyyG123]

Just tell him, and be honest and open about it. The last thing you want to do is lie to him and it sounds like you love him alot, so be open. If he loves you he'll listen to what you have to say and act appropiately :) Don't only criticize, suggest ways to help solve the problem. Just say its something you two can work out, together. And if he's a guy who is deserving of your love, then he will accept what your telling him and you two will work it out, together :) Good luck, I hope it works out for your guys

[sammi101xox]

Thank you 😊😊😊

[MarkyyG123]

Anytime, your welcome :) and Thanks for the MHO, I hope it works out for your guys :)

[diana23]

Well.. if uhh dnt enjoy him kissing uhh... den there's no point in doing.. uhh should just tell him the truth.. nd both of uhh should work on it together

[DodgersGM]

Is it his kissing technique that you don't care for? Or is it the fact that he kissed you so many times all at once like that?

I imagine that, having NEVER been kissed before in your entire life, that going from zero to eight in one fell swoop might have been a little overwhelming.

Also, another question: is he more experienced than you are? Has he kissed other women before?

[sammi101xox]

He has kissed one other girl, but only once. It's not the fact that he kisses me heaps, it's his kissing technique

[DodgersGM]

Oh okay, I gotcha. So he's pretty much brand-new to the kissing thing too, then, and knowing this it's not all that shocking that the kissing wasn't great. Haha.

Give it some time, and keep working at it. Also, don't be afraid to guide him a little. You can start by voicing the things that you like when he does them, and that'll help him learn how to properly kiss you. Also, encourage him if you can to share the things he likes as well.

Like I said, with time it'll get better so long as you point things in the right direction. :-)

[sammi101xox]

Thank you :)

[DodgersGM]

Of course. Good luck with all of it, I'm sure it'll work out just fine. :-)

[zadams1404]

Just be honest with him. Just say hey not to be mean but you're not a great kisser. Yeah he might be embarrassed but try and help each other out. The longer you go with him thinking he's doing good the worse it's gonna be when you finally tell him

[sammi101xox]

But how do I tell him?

[zadams1404]

Just like I said. Be blunt but gentle afterwards. His ego will be shot but it's your job as his girl to help him build it back up. It will suck initially but it will work out

[JustinX]

1st time always sucks but if you kiss more often then he may be a good kisser that you will go crazy with

[sammi101xox]

Thank you :)

[JustinX]

welcome hmmm kiss with bf a lot and you will be good kissers in no time... i wish i have someone to kiss with

[sammi101xox]

Don't worry, you'll find somebody :)

[JustinX]

yeah haha

[NovemberJoseph]

If you don't like kissing him at all, you guys aren't going to work.

[sammi101xox]

But I love him :/

[NovemberJoseph]

No you don't.

[sammi101xox]

You don't know me FFS. I do love him. That's why I'm putting this in here. If I didn't love him I would just break up with him

[NovemberJoseph]

If you really loved him, you wouldn't care how many times he kissed you on the day he kissed you for the first time. You wouldn't care if he sucks at kissing, you'd love his kisses. Because they're from him.

You're not In love with him.

[sammi101xox]

You've probably never kissed a girl if you're saying that. I'm just explaining the situation, and I don't like his kisses, doesn't mean I don't love him. Omg

[NovemberJoseph]

Woah, lol that assumption just shows that you've never been in love.

But anyways, unless his breath stinks or he literally has no clue on how to kiss or something like that, there should be no reason for you not to like his kisses. Unless you have some sort of trauma when it comes to kisses but I doubt that's the case. If you don't like his kisses, you just aren't in love with him.

If his kisses are just okay, decent, not bad, then that's a different story.

[foxsquirrell]

I think he is the problem. He doesn't know how to handle the situation.
Regarding what should you do, I think you should not kiss him.

[Anonymous]

Maybe you're les?

[sammi101xox]

Haha I don't think so ;)

[Opinion Owner]

You might be

[sammi101xox]

Maybe, hahahahhaha

[Opinion Owner]

Never know until you try

[sammi101xox]

Hahaha