I love smart girls, especially (and perhaps more importantly) ones with a heart of gold. ;)
Being smart is a big plus with any guy you would care to be involved with. If a guy doesn't like smart, you don't want to be with him anyway.
BUT, my experience with "smart girls", especially ones that present themselves as "independent", is that sometimes they tend to have a chip in their shoulder about men and the classic feminist "I don't need a man" attitude that is such a turnoff to guys. Oil and water. There is one thing for sure, and that is that men have no need for women who "don't need a man". I don't care how smart or beautiful they are, that attitude is just a big turnoff.
At the end of the day most good men (the ones that most women call good men) are attracted to feminine, loving, nurturing women who will make a good wife and a good mother to their children, not super ambitious career driven women for whom family is secondary. That's my take anyway.
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For a serious relationship, it all depends on the guy; just like any measure of ‘attractiveness’, each guy has different things that he really likes to see in a girl. Believe it or not, I've seen some guys who don’t even take ‘smarts’ into account when pursuing a girl.
A buddy of mine told me that he was intimidated by smart girls, simply because of the fact that manipulative girls are smart. That is, to be manipulative, you must be smart. And he don't like manipulative girls. He said when he was talking to a smart girl, he felt that she was ‘out of his league’ and was uncomfortable talking to her beyond just shallow conversation.
But as for me, absolutely! I find smart girls very attractive. My ideal girl is a girl that is both beautiful (physically) and intelligent. Being able to have a conversation is very important in a relationship. I couldn't date Miss Universe if she had no brain.
The fact is, intelligence can be incredibly sexy.
Cuteness trumps over smartness for women in social arenas dear.
They will say they think positively but they won't show any interest to smart girls in my opinion because they are intimidated maybe (?).
I do not know. Interesting question with a typo (hopefully accidental one. Otherwise it would be funny to claim you are intelligent)
I'm about to receive a bachelor's in Biology and I always feel i intimdate guys who dnt go to school. To me it doesn't matter as long as you can make me happy but guys make it seem like they dnt deserve me smh
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"pleanty"? Okay...
It's always a plus if someone isn't as dumb as a brick. You can kinda tell someone's level of intellect based on the way they pronounce things and the way they talk and the way they phrase things, it's quite interesting actually.Smart is good... but understand that classic femininity will ALWAYS be what attracts and keeps a guy engaged on a primal level.
To use a sundae metaphor, "smart / intelligence" is more like the chocolate fudge and the cherry on top, and the "femininity" is the ice cream.
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The only way being "intelligent/smart" is a bad thing, is when said girl thinks that intelligence, somehow, substitutes for classic feminine behavior that attracts us on a primal level. Also this girl usually looks down on other girls who are more classically feminine, labeling them as stupid bimbos / dumb bitches.
These are the BLATANT epic fails that a lot of " intelligence / smart" girls make in the dating world.
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As long as u don't do those two epic fails, u will be just fine, Asker. 8-)I love them, as it's always nice to talk about important things. Just don't brag about it, don't be a show off, that's a major turn-off. Be proud of it, of course, but don't be cocky about it.
intelligence is very sexy. Beauty is only skin deep. Intellect doesn't overcome everything but it sure goes a long way. Why do you think teachers are considered sexy?
Smart IS sexy and attractive. And a convo with a smart person is a lot more fun.
The intellectual type is the greatest. I've honestly become interested in a girl before simply because she said something intelligent in class.
Brains are useful, but how you use them determines how you'll be viewed.
I love smart girls. Girls who question everything, and think for themselves.
But if you ask guys in the bible... well they hate smart girls.
The women should keep silent in the churches. For they are not permitted to speak, but should be in submission, as the Law also says. If there is anything they desire to learn, let them ask their husbands at home. For it is shameful for a woman to speak in church.
1 CorinthiansIf you're the smartest person in the room you're in the wrong room! Bring on the smart girls
i don't have any problem with them at all LOL
A girl can impress me with her intellect
I like them. All girls should be smart.
a real turn on
Well, aren't we modest
Yes please.
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