I don't like guys to pick me up for the first date if I don't know him.
But let's say for example that it's someone I met at school. Even though I don't know him well, I wouldn't mind him coming to pick me up. It's just not as intimidating since we're already acquaintinces.
So, since these are women you've met online that seems totally normal. I wouldn't let you pick me up either. But if we were real-life acquaintinces, then I would.
It's sweet that you offer, but yeah if you're meeting them online, it's definitely safer as a woman, to meet him at a public location. Only time I would let someone pick me up, is if I already know him as a person, or we're already dating and he's my boyfriend picking me up to go on a date.
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I like the whole being picked up thing, sends off a message that he wants to court me & take the lead - which I love! (even if I will rebel against it slightly). But maybe not with somebody I met online, I'd have to trust them to know where my house is & that they're not a complete looney!
If its a first date its ok to meet at the date location.. dont want that person knowing where u live if things dont work out.. but after a while sure why not?
The thing with picking up a girl from her house, you will probably meet her parents/roommate/ brother so just keep that in mind!!
When I first began dating my boyfriend, he would always pick me up or if he was working, I would meet him at work and then we go on our date
If we've been dating for a while, yeah, but not on the first few dates when we're just getting to know each other. It's sweet of him to offer, though.
Not on our first few dates.
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