Poll: what height do girls/guys like in girls/guys - taller/same/shorter?

[Anonymous]

Which option do you prefer and why?

Taller

Same

Shorter

A total of 602 votes were cast: 304 girls and 298 guys. See detailed results

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+1 y

Wow, what a landslide...

[Anonymous]

I like taller guys. Not for protection like guys always say, because I can handle myself. I just think taller guys look sexy, of course there are ugly ones to, but hot or average guys who are tall look better than somebody with a similar face and body.
Plus, I'd just feel so frigging weird kissing a guy shorter than me lol. I'm 5'1 anyway, so I haven't met many guys around my height, so it's just really weird when I do.

[Asker]

So height accentuates attractiveness. Is a lack of height simply less attractive or can it be unattractive?

[Opinion Owner]

No, unless he's exceptionally short it doesn't make a huge difference. If he's tall, it just gives him an extra point or two.

[Asker]

ok thanks

[lynneishappi]

I prefer taller guys but its hard to find cuz im a girl and 5 foot 10 XD so i just dont worry about height

[Michellediva]

Yeah me too I'm 5ft 10, so I like a taller guy if possible, but would date a shorter guy if he had a good personality.

[Asker]

Do your eyes light up at the sight of very tall guys? haha

[lynneishappi]

Omg yes and the ones at my school are all sooo cute this year XD the only ones i know personally tho we are just freinds XD

[Elsa2ne1]

Haha Im 5'9 so i feel your pain :p. Good thing almost all guys in my country are 6 feet+ except for the imigrants

[oaksneakers]

I'm 5'10" so I like taller just because I don't find it that much

[Asker]

What would you consider a perfect height for a guy as a 5'10 girl?

[oaksneakers]

I'm for me perfect would be like 6'2" I mean as a girl I want the guy to be bigger and more powerful than me but if I like someone and there like the same height as me if I like him enough it would be fine

[Asker]

That's very interesting, I'm 6'2 and I've always considered 5'10 to be the perfect height for me, nice to know the preference is mutual with at least one 5'10 girl. :) Thanks.

[oaksneakers]

Your totally welcome and thanks for not liking short girls lol pisses me off when the short girls take tall guys when their height difference would be the same as a guy that was like 5'6" lol

[BrightEyesRemember]

I'm a very short guy. When I'm going for other men I prefer them anywhere from the same height to much taller. Though honestly I don't mind shorter, I just find it unlikely because I'm five feet tall. When going for women I prefer them to be close to my height. At most six inches taller (preferably) but again height isn't really a make or break

[Tractorbeam]

This is a dumb-ass poll, because it's not gender specific.
If women voted for taller men and men voted for shorter women, how would you tell which sex prefers taller or shorter.

I like women 2" - 4" taller than me, but if I vote it will look like women want tall men. That's not what I'm asking for at all.

[Asker]

The votes are automatically differentiated by gender, click and see for yourself. Lol noob.

[linahh]

Pretty much all my exes and my current one are taller than 5' 11", so yeah...

[Asker]

How tall are you?

[linahh]

About 5' 6 :)

[Asker]

Cool, thanks!

[Tokana]

I'm 5' 10" and I'd prefer her to be shorter. Some women put on those heels and challenge my height... i hate when that happens.

[Asker]

I didn't know that was a thing... How often does it happen?

[SolitaireBond]

Lol... I would have to say taller.

Am 5' 10" and my husband is a towering 6' 7"

[Asker]

I've heard stories about some 5'10 girls complaining about all the men being shorter than them here, looks like you got lucky haha.

[SolitaireBond]

You're so right in saying that about the girls complaining, and I do feel so very sorry for them.

I am though NOT ABOUT to start sharing my husband with them! lol :)

[Asker]

Your kids are going to be giants, get them into a basketball training camps while they're young, make millions off of sport stars lol.

[Sairres]

I'm 5ft 6in and I like guys my height or shorter. If the guy's too tall I feel intimidated. Same with girls. I like girls my height or shorter.

[Asker]

Hmmm, how tall was your dad?

[Sairres]

My dad is taller than me. I haven't seen him in a while. My step dad is my height. Lol, you think that's why I like guys my height or shorter? *Shrugs*

[Asker]

Just curious, your preference is rare.

[Sairres]

Ya, and it's unfortunate that it is. Other girls need to open their eyes.

[Asker]

It's a biologically justified preference, unfortunate for short guys, but necessary for Humanity.

[Sairres]

And yet I question even that. I wonder how they found this out? What if more girls were raised by fathers who were shorter than their moms? Would that alter mainstream preferences? Hmm, the mystery.

[Asker]

It's fairly obvious, it's sexual dimorphism. The male average height is higher than the female average height. Testosterone promotes bone growth, estrogen stunts it.

Women that have feminine traits that are promoted by female hormones are seen as more genetically healthy and therefor more attractive. Men that have masculine traits that are promoted by male hormones are seen as more genetically healthy and therefor more attractive.

Short height in men is a subconscious indicator of poor genetic health.

[Sairres]

I see. That's just unfair. Height is only one thing. I've met plenty of guys who were very healthy and shorter. So short women are more desirable than tall and are subconsciously seen as healthier? Life is weird.

[Asker]

What about ugly people? People that actually can't control their weight? It's all the same. Life isn't fair. "very healthy and shorter" You misunderstand, I'm talking about genetic health not 'conventional' health.

It's not even close to the same extent with men's preferences since men are programmed to want to spread their genetic material to as many women as possible. Women have to be selective because they're the ones that have to carry the baby for 9 months. So while most men want girls shorter than them, there are still heaps of men that want taller girls or don't care. Whereas the vast majority of women want taller guys. That's why I created this poll and as you can see, it supports my contention on both men's and women's preferences.

Weird? It's actually the opposite, it's natural. We're the weird ones for being the only species to try to socially combat biological preferences when they exist to promote the genetic health of the species.

[Bysshe]

@Asker height is only a genetic advantage in terms of sexual attraction. It's no more functional than a peacocks's tail. It's not as you say in the interest of humanity for women to choose tall men.

[Mesonfielde]

How would you feel about 5'7"? That's my height and it's pretty average around here.

[Sairres]

@Bysshe I agree. It's not in the best interest of humanity for some guys to prefer girls with long hair either (or blonde hair or light/dark skin) We just all like what we like because we like it.
@Mesonfielde 5ft 7in is fine. I think I'm actually 5ft 7, not 6. My cut off is around 5ft 8. Any taller than that and no thanks. It just feels weird to look and see that the guy is taller. :/

[itsme_goodsamaritan]

Well, if I had an option to choose, I'd go for taller guys, coz I'd feel more protected. But my BF is almost the same height as mine.. its not a big deal at all. For all I know, he could have been shorten than me too... looks don't matter. Period.

[Asker]

Can you describe the feeling of protection?

[CommieDearest]

I prefer taller. I have dated around my height and an inch or two shorter.

People need to stop getting so hung up on PREFERENCES, they're seldom requirements.

[zorro8888]

How tall are you commie my dear

[Vinvei]

I'm 157cm tall so it's difficult to find anybody shorter than me. Generally taller guys seem more attractive, but that depends. Overall height does not matter much to me.

[Anonymous]

5'10 and up is acceptable 6'0 and up is preferred. Tall guys are hot short guys ummm not so much #sorrynotsorry

[Asker]

So no guy under 5'10 ever?

[Jessica__]

How tall are you

[Opinion Owner]

@asker Yeah has to be 5'10 and up.

@Jessica__ I am 5'2

[Jessica__]

What if iT was the other way around and everyone went after the supertall girls. If your that short there's no reason why you need a tall guy. js. but people can have preferences

[Opinion Owner]

@Jessica__ Tall girls are sought out by a lot of guys look at the poll. Also what do you mean there's no reason? It makes me feel safe and I find it very attractive and I just don't like short guys...

[Mesonfielde]

"safe" is such a bullshit reason. If you want to feel safe, buy a gun and learn how to use it.

[Opinion Owner]

@Mesonfielde Uhh it's not that kind of safety, it's a subconscious thing, a feeling. Innate instinct. Men are supposed to be taller, that's why the male average is much higher than females and the taller the better to an extent. Our brains just naturally associate dominance with taller men, it's not based on today's logic.

[Opinion Owner]

So many guys downvoting, did I make all the short guys mad? I'm just telling the truth.

[Kyndra]

I prefer taller and I'm 5'1, so almost every guy I meet is taller than me.

[WTFStarbucks]

Unless you go to an elementary school :/

[Kyndra]

@WTFStarbucks Haha, well they're too young for my taste :P I meant the guys who have been through puberty.

[juanitarob]

i like taller guys because I'm tall. may seem shallow, but the guy has to at least be my height (5'8"). i usually go for taller though, like at least 5'11"

[DarthGameRuler]

Do you wear heels?

[Craigelbagel]

Shorter or same. I am meant to be the strong one in the relationship, becaus did be the guy, and if im shorter I feel im not living up to my purpose

[Asker]

Yeah a lot of guys I know say the same.

[FBorDie]

Much Shorter! I'm 6'1" and my girlfriend is 5'3". I find it unbelievably cute when my girlfriend has to stand on her tippy toes just to kiss me

[glamgamergal]

Awww that's sooo cute I want that #relationshipgoals

[Mesonfielde]

I'm 5'7" and my initial preference is "same", so I'd be okay with 5'7" down to 5'3" because that is the optimal height difference during kissing while standing, voted B) as such.

[Tonymoulls]

I'm 5'1, i'm not fussed if the girl is taller or shorter than me but i do find it a lot harder to get a girlfriend because of my height.

[Asker]

Oh damn man, I'm sorry. All the 5'5 - 5'9 guys complaining think they have it bad...

[Tonymoulls]

No need to be sorry man, I don't mind being short and have been with girls before so its not like it's impossible :)

Yeah being short does have it's downsides but it never stops me from doing anything :)

[Asker]

Good attitude, there's this 5'10 guy constantly moping about his height you should teach some lessons to.

[Tonymoulls]

Thanks! I've learnt to live with my height so its all cool but sometimes i do wish i was just a few inches taller.

That guy needs to stop crying about his height and think of the shorties lol

[AlwaysBelieving]

Oh snaps dude @Tonymoulls. At 5'4". I've also learned to embrace my height.

[Anonymous]

I prefer taller guys. But I am 5'2 so almost everyone is taller than me.

[wolfspirit32]

taller than me. but not so tall that im up on my tiptoes and he's bent over a lot just to kiss me.

[DodgersGM]

I heavily prefer that she is shorter than me. It's one of the VERY few strong preferences that I actually have.

[DumpliingPrincess]

My height or taller. I'm 5ft4 but I'm okay with guys who are 5ft6 and up. If I'm wearing heeled shoes it's okay if you're shorter at the time.

[stripedbunny]

I like taller guys, and i'm 5'2" so that's not exactly a "high" demand in my opinion (pun accidentally intended)

[allwood]

I'm 6'4" so girls are usually shorter than me anyway ;)
I do like petite women though, my ex was 5'3"

[BZerpy]

I'm 5'7 and prefer shorter. But it seems from this thread that all girls above 5 feet prefer guys over 6' so I'm screwed..

[Elsa2ne1]

Yeah because height is all that matters. Just because girls like tall guys doesn't mean short guys have no chance. They just have to try harder :p

[Tractorbeam]

You're not really screwed. You just need to earn about an extra $150,000 per year and the average woman will see you as attractive as a 6' man who earns what you do now.
See reference 11, in this link https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lookism#cite_note-11

All women are whores at heart, so you just need enough money to pay her height compensation.

[Bysshe]

Most guys are under 6', even though women want guys above 6' most of them will need to settle for a shorter guy.

[Tractorbeam]

True enough. Only about 14.5% of men are 6' or taller. You consider them the freaks and the exception. They also have more health problems later in life, and a shorter life expectancy.
www.slate.com/.../...all_is_hazardous_to_your.html

[Mesonfielde]

No, don't worry. This guy is a dating advice site because these people aren't really taken. I guess the fact that their preferences are defined by "height" is a part of it. LOL

[DivaMonae]

I prefer guys that are taller but my height is where I draw the line.

[Asker]

How tall are you?

[DivaMonae]

I'm 5'8 so that's usually the shortest I'll date a guy.

[Asker]

Yeah, thank you.

[DarthGameRuler]

Would 5’7 be a deal breaker?

[Love_me_back_to_life]

I like taller cuz I think it's cute when I have to go on my toes to reach up for a kiss.

[Asker]

Yeah, it is nice isn't it...

[creativeusername101]

anything from 2" shorter to 2" taller is preferable.

[DarthGameRuler]

How tall are you?

[the_entertainer]

I'm 5'4 (165cm or so) and like taller guys... ideally between 5'10 - 6'2.

[Klaatu51]

girl must be taller than the guy, to look good in my eyes

[Elsa2ne1]

I'm between 5'8 and 5'9 and Id like a guy thats like 5'11-6'1

[DarthGameRuler]

Would 5’8-5’9 be a deal breaker?

[ElsBels1628]

Im 5'4 so I prefer guys who are taller than me. Even if ever so slightly. I think it's just cute

[JulieXO]

I don't really care about height much. I prefer my height or taller though :)

[WTFStarbucks]

Whats your height :D

[JulieXO]

@WTFStarbucks between 5'3 and 5'4 ^-^

[WTFStarbucks]

Omg i am taller than that... we must be soulmates.
:3

[JulieXO]

OMG crazy O. o

[JulieXO]

@WTFStarbucks

[WTFStarbucks]

Crazy for you
😙 love u babe

[Mesonfielde]

@JulieXO @wtfstarbucks https://xkcd.com/807/

[JulieXO]

@Mesonfielde we are so connected you can't even! hashtag love

[Mesonfielde]

#love

[DoraLikesSugar]

I like taller women as they make me feel safe and secure.

[Asker]

Seriously?

[DoraLikesSugar]

I'm very fragile.

[Asker]

Ahh, okay. I've just never heard a guy say that about a girl.

[DoraLikesSugar]

Hold me tight, anon.

[Asker]

*Holds tightly* There there...

[Anonymous]

I like girls who are 5'8 or taller. It doesn't matter if they're shorter or taller than me, as long as they're not shorter than that.

[Asker]

Interesting. How tall are you?

[Bysshe]

@Asker obviously he's above 5'8

[AlwaysBelieving]

I'm 5'4" and prefer my height or taller. Just don't want to have to get out a step stool to kiss her though. LOL

[Asker]

So you don't want a girl shorter than you?

[AlwaysBelieving]

I'm not all that attracted to gals that are shorter than I am. *shrugs*.

[Asker]

That must be hard since most women want someone taller.

[AlwaysBelieving]

It only takes one. It only takes one. And I think I've "found" her.

[milkeuti]

I like someone taller than me because I'm already short enough. Lol.

[Luv2BRealExotic13]

Taller I like guys 5'10 and up.

[Asker]

How tall are you?

[Luv2BRealExotic13]

I'm 5'2 and a half.

[Asker]

Cool thanks.

[lordAlex818]

I'm 5' 10" and I prefer girls from 5' 7- 5'9. As long as the height difference isn't too much, it's not that important to me.

[kangy]

I am 5'1 definitely there are many who are taller than me
i dont place much emphasis on height

[Red_Dragon]

I'm 5'3 5'4 and I prefer 8'0 women. Not 7'11. Gotta be at least 8'0

[creativeusername101]

damn! I'm off by 1' ;p

[Red_Dragon]

@creativeusername101 Dang :/. That sucks.

[Asker]

ok...

[Mesonfielde]

lmao

[Anonymous]

I like guys that are taller than me, I'm 5'1. I also like girls that are shorter than me.

[Asker]

Are you bisexual or are these preferences non-sexual?

[Opinion Owner]

I think I'm bi... Don't judge me...

[Asker]

Not judging, thanks for answering.

[lanksextburg]

taller, but just a little bit taller.

like...

i dont want to have to stand on my tiptoes and have them bend down in order to kiss.

[anothergirl23]

dude! that's the thing. I'd find it super awkward if i had to bend down to kiss him

[notverycreativeguy]

I am 5'9" and prefer girls to be shorter, between 5' and 5'6 or something.

[Nick_Is_Oblivious]

Im 6'7 and I prefer short girls. Not saying I rule out tall girls but its just a preference.

[creativeusername101]

well, I doubt you would ever have an issue with that. not too many 6'+ gals walking around.

[Asker]

What would a 6'7 man consider short and tall for a girl?

[pizzaholic]

Technically most girls are short in your eyes haha, what would you consider tall? Your height?

[DarthGameRuler]

Same height. I’m 5’8 so I like girls 5’7-5’9. I really like seeing a girl around eye level

[BillieJean1070]

I'm 5''4" so the field is pretty open for me

[QueenOfPerfection]

Tall men all the way.

[TheLittleBuggy]

I'm 4"11 but I like my guys 6 foot

[WTFStarbucks]

Omg ur height is so cute xD

[TheLittleBuggy]

Yah, I know ;) lol, I like it :"D because like at school, people just wanna pick me up! I haven't walked to a class all year lol it's fun!

[Mesonfielde]

Well of course it's 6' and not 5'11" or 6'1" no it's 6'0" because arbitrary measurement system *smh*

[Bro0509]

I'm 5"4 but I think 5"9 would be perfect for me

[Prettygurl12]

Taller. Significantly taller.

[poppunk]

I consider 5'10 perfect... i'm 5'2

[rawrityrawrrawr]

same haha. this is literally exactly what i was gonna say haha.

[Mi2mi2a]

I'm 5'2 so it's not a problem for me

[silvernblackattk]

Women will only date 6'0 and up

[Asker]

From the polls and articles I'd say they prefer it, but what you said is only true with some girls, not all.

[CommieDearest]

Some guys I've dated are under 6' and I'm 5'10"...

[Kshppatel]

Women will prefer to dat six feet and up. Some will settle for under six feet. Op just keep in mind you will need to do more to keep your woman since you are on the shorter side.

[turkishdelight]

I prefer taller guys..

[TonqueFu]

Ne kadar uzun :)

[meatballs21]

I am 6'2", I prefer a foot shorter than me.

[Adam1997]

I prefer shorter girls.

[Anonymous]

I prefer taller girls ;)

[Asker]

It's those legs, isn't it? Haha...

[Opinion Owner]

Right, hahahahaa :D

[Mihikko]

Taller than me the better like 5'7 up or 6 feet

[Anonymous]

I'm 5'2 and I like guys 5'10-6'3

[WTFStarbucks]

:( 5'9

[Opinion Owner]

Id be willing to date a guy 5'9 is he was really cute and nice lol.

[NZDSTR]

@WTFStarbucks should wouldn't be able to tell if you were 5'9" or 5'10" it's so close small girls can't tell now if she was 5'8" then maybe but a 5'2" girl can't tell don't stress about it :)

[Opinion Owner]

I can tell tbh.

[RaceAgainstMachine]

I like girls my height, 5’7-5’8

[Anonymous]

i'm 5'8 1/2 and i loove when guys are over 6 ft

[COCOCHANEL]

i like up to 5'10

[Asker]

Not beyond?

[COCOCHANEL]

no..

[CluelessGent]

Wow. I just realized I am fucked at 5' 6".

[Bysshe]

Indeed

[Mesonfielde]

It's not easy but it's not impossible, you just need to look at the 5'3"-5'4" range and not have them be stuckup bitches.