How to know if an online gamer guy likes you?

[Anonymous]

I play online games, and have a headset. I just want to know how to know if he actually likes you, not just flirting. He doesn't really flirt when we play, but right when I get online he sends me an invite to play. He seems nice. We talked about what its like meeting someone online. But I said that its not my thing. But he said everyone has there different preferences. Anyways yeah. Dont have much information but any signs that I could look for?

[matheus_mb]

We can't really say. It's normal to invite someone to play when you like playing with this person, it's normally just a gaming thing.

[Supermosh1990]

They will flirt with u a lot. U have no idea where he is from.

[chivalricious]

I am having a crush on a girl that I frequently play with. I don't know what she looks like, but I really enjoy her presence and pleasant attitude. She's this bubbly, optimistic, funny, warm-hearted type of girl. God dang it, you don't find love, it finds you! I teach her many things about the game, getting our stuff together, fighting bad guys, doing private sessions with only 2 of us etc. Sadly physical distance is too huge between us, so I don't think it is fair for her/us if I'm being too hopelessly in love in this phase.

So if a guy spends his time mostly with you, even if it's only an online game, sharing his stuff, and keeps coming back for you, you know there's a chance that he likes you as a real person. I am thinking about her a lot over the last few weeks, wondering how she talks, laughs and her face looks like. So when I met her online in our "similar to life online game", I secretly act as I do IRL, being chivalrous and all. At least she has good company, and I am happy to see her happy. She keeps sending me funny emojis, caring about me (sometimes subtle), so I need to reciprocate well. Love (any) itself is a "game", right? Keep playing it and try to have a good ending as best as you can (even sometimes if the ending is no always "Hollywood" romantic).

[rthomas43]

Guys like having a girl in their group in the sausage fest that is online gaming. Don't think too much into it.

[Tdieseler]

I wouldn't read too much into it.