Is it ok if I get into a relationship with my ex's twin brother?

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My ex and I broke up because he lost interested in me and he said I deserve better than someone who doesn't truly love me like him. I still love him a lot. His twin brother looks exactly like him, his voice, his face, his sweet personality, etc. And his twin brother likes me. I like him too, but I'm not sure if I like him just because he looks exactly like my ex or not. Is it ok if I get into a relationship with my ex's twin brother?

Reddr · Accepted Answer

I know someone who was madly in love with this guy for many years back in high school. They were very good friends and always together. Never technically dated but were inseparable and like I said, she was crazy in love with him and wanted a relationship. Because they were always together, she became close friends with his identical twin brother. The twin and she quickly fell for each other, she immediately forgot about her feelings for the other brother, and they started dating. It lasted many years and they are now very happily married and have been for a few years.
It isn't unreasonable. It happens. You have to make sure you are completely over your ex, and that bother brothers are comfortable with it. But if it is meant to be, go for it.

chocolate-fudge · Accepted Answer

I would say yes, do it. It is not ok, and at the beggining it will be awkard, but who cares? You'll get used to it and your ex doesn't love you anymore, he's the one who broke up with you. Maybe now you still have feeligs for your ex, but soomer or later you'll forget about your ex and will love his brother for who he is, not for him looking like your ex. I think you should try it, but first of all you two should have a talk with your ex. If he doesn't love you anymore and his brother does, then why would your ex care about your future relationships?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I wouldn't date him if I were you. You like him for all the wrong reasons. You're still in love with your ex, and you like his twin because they're similar. They're not exactly alike though. They're two different individuals. It's like buying a knockoff bag instead of the real thing. In the end it is most likely not gonna work out because you still haven't gotten over your ex. He's just the rebound guy, and it would probably be better off if you didn't date cause somebody is probably gonna get hurt.

JohnScofield787 · Accepted Answer

seems like you are trying to get back with your ex through his twin I would be very careful here.

Ihav2fart · Accepted Answer

Nooooo... do you want to get with their father next?

julieloves26 · Answer

Well, first of all how do you think that's going to change the relations between the two brothers? Are they both at an understanding about this? How long have you and your ex been broken up? Depending on these answers it may be be healthy for you or for them to be involved in this manor. You may just need to step back and take some time for yourself and to figure out what you really want. Love is great, being with someone is great. But it's when it's for the right reasons and at the right time when it's at it's greatest peak. Love will find you, you just have to come to terms with some of the repercussions.

xobrowneyedbeauty · Answer

"I still love him a lot. His twin brother looks exactly like him, his voice, his face, his sweet personality" - you just said it yourself that you only like him because he reminds you of your ex. it would be a really bad idea to get into a relationship with him. and it would be really stupid of him also.

zombiebabe · Answer

damn! nope!! not a good idea at all!

DodgersGM · Answer

It sounds pretty strange to me, not gonna lie.

The mere fact that he's your ex's brother makes it seem like a bad idea, and then you add in the twin thing for good measure.

I'd skip it if I were you.

Unkowngirl · Answer

No, you're not over your ex. If you did happen to get with your exes twin brother imagine the tension you would cause between them and yourself. It's not worth it. Get over him and move on.

Crazyced · Answer

You're in love with your ex, not his twin brother. Plus I'd have a hard time imagining twin brothers doing that to each other. Identical twins usually have particularly tight knit relationships.

DancingWithDragons · Answer

Maybe this will help.

stevephillips706 · Answer

nope not a good idea and here's what steve carrell has to say about it

mutedaisy · Answer

Well, you'd never have to take down your fb pictures or the pictures in the home. If he is exactly like him, the relationship will not last.

linkywinky · Answer

Sounds like you need some good ol' fashioned therapy.

Jakesusername · Answer

It might make for a weird family dynamic but go for it if it's what you want.

Foxxpaw · Answer

Twins basil... twiiiiins...

chadsten · Answer

It's okay, probably gonna be awkward though.

blondfrog · Answer

No that's just messed up.

KBob93 · Answer

NO DON'T DO IT!!!

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