Woww what a shitty brother... even if my brother had some crush on a chick she would be off limits to me. This will most likely cause a rift between them and their family will look down on you because of it. Like others already mentioned are you really ready for all this drama, being the cause for this drama? Your a girl it shouldn't be too hard too find another guy with less baggage that comes with the relationship.
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There is just no need for the drama
It sounds slightly stalkerish of you. Like you'd be doing it to provoke a reaction, or as a way to stay on your exes life.
It's likely he's moved on and wouldn't give a shit, so go for it if that's the case
I am married to my ex's brother lol
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No, it's rare but not unheard of and he's fair game.
Nothing but drama and bad feelings at any family get together and both brothers will always have that conflict and animosity between them. This is more of a problem he will see and not so much you. In most cases, people always care for family more than new partners. So once the newness wears off and the sex becomes boring you will likely get dumped because his relationship to his brother is more valuable to him than you are.
well maybe this is biased because i’m with my ex’s brother but if they talk it over and the ex says it cool i see no problem with it. I mean you love who you love and they can’t be mad at that. Now if you’re just doing it to use it as an act of “revenge” or trying to make them mad that’s wrong. While it is kinda odd and weird do what makes you happy.
Billions of potential guys to date... but you choose to date your ex bfs brother...
Not weird, just foolish..
https://i.gifer.com/TXUw.gifIt's odd but it also depends on how serious you and your ex were and how he and his family feel about it.
Yeah, I'd say it's weird - if not with me, it might be with the rest of the family. But yeah - to me, it's weird. I think it's based on the fact that we used to date and now you're dating someone in my family.
This is borderline kinky, invite the other and you could have a spit roast or a special sandwich.
you don't date friends of ex's or family members
it's not COOLWeird. It will matter to them eventually.
Wait until he asks for a threesome...
Yes. Def. weird
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