I’m dating my best friend’s brother. Is that weird?

[Elliegirl]

She says she’s fine with it. How would you feel if your best friend was dating your brother or sister?

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I don’t know. We’ve been together for two years and she’s the one who introduced us, so we’ve never really discussed that possibility.

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Sorry, that was supposed to be a reply, not an update. Oops! Blonde moment!

[Dim1213]

It only feels weird if you think it does. I have seen pleanty of drama with my best freinds sister and really unless he does not like them. He can care less about who she dates. If it is some one he trusts all the better for him and her. Less drama but the bumps might take a little longer to work out after an argument.

[vittle1999]

It's great when everything is going well. It becomes awkward when there is a bad bump along the way.

[kayjay87]

Well said

[vittle1999]

Merci beaucoup kayjay.

[LaFemmeFatale]

My first biggest love was my girlfriend's brother. We had a Math's class together.

Almost all of my girl friends have a crush on my brother.
So no, It's not weird, I've been on both sides.

[AzureGirl]

Speaking from experience, I had a friend date my sister once. It completely ruined our friendship and it put a wedge between my sister and I. So I'm not too keen on it.

[Anonymous]

I married my best friend's brother. We've been happy together for 20 years. Plus you get to hang out with your best friend at holiday get-togethers.

[Chrysis]

This calls for a song!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jR9l_YzTz_w

On a side note; I tried to hook a friend of mine up with my brother, lol.

[JimRSmith]

Probably slightly uneasy, just in case there was ever an event which meant I had to make some kind of choice between them.

If they got married and lived happily ever after, then all well and good, though.

[milettescheepers]

its actually cool if you dont get psycho and fight all the time and irritate your friend. just be chilled

[Gabby1031]

Not at all. I have a friend who married her best friend's brother and the three of them couldn't be happier 🙂

[humpbackjack]

I’d be fine with it as long as she wasn’t way younger and she didn’t get jealous about us hanging out without her

[adorable_petite]

no it’s weird


I got married to my best friend of over 10 years

[adorable_petite]

We met as juniors in college

[Vmm90]

I don't think it's weird, I think it would become weird if they broke up though.

[FemWorship]

That would make me feel excluded and then the private jokes unshared

[former_tomboy]

It is not weird. I am dating my sisters best friend.

[jersos1]

Weird kinda at the beginning. But I guess if they have no issues with it, it's fine.

[Deeppurple]

My first girlfriend was my friend's sister. She was five years older than me too.

[tom_the_dating_snob]

I am dating my best friend in the whole world and have never been happier.

[EDM_kayaking_yoga]

Not weird at all. My best friend married my sister.

[Razal]

Nothing wrong as long the other person is nice and decent !!

[BCRanger10]

Nope, not weird at all.

[anewgirl]

I don’t think it’s weird

[Anonymous]

But what if it doesn't work out

[Elliegirl]

The update was supposed to be my reply to you. We’ve never discussed it. She told me I’d like him and introduced us. We’ve been together for two years now.

[JenDB]

BFB BFB MY BEST FRIEND'S BROTHER IS THE ONE FOR ME

[Anonymous]

Yes, does she even know?

[Elliegirl]

Yeah. She knows.

[Opinion Owner]

Not good

[24_7_Amazing]

No not weird at all. It is actually quite hot.

[ms_and_ms]

I don’t think that is weird