Here's the story:
Let's say my guy friend's name is Andy and his brother's name is Paul. I've known Andy for about 2 years and we developed a sexual relationship, nothing else, just sexual.
I've known Paul longer than I've known Andy but we didn't talk as much. I messaged Paul one day asking him about how things were going. Paul ended up getting flirty which led to sexting.
I told Andy about this and Andy felt weirded out and got mad. He cut me off for 4 months. I messaged Andy on his birthday and we talked and then he started to feel awkward with me.
This awkwardness he has been feeling has been going on for a very long time. I have talked about how I feel and I even asked him why he let this affect him so much because me and Andy were not dating.
Andy won't open up to me and tell me how he feels but he did tell me that his awkwardness started from his brother.
What can I do to make Andy feel better? Why does he even feel awkward? Why did this affect him so much?
