Hooking up with best friend's brother!?

[Anonymous]

So I hooked up with my best friends brother..And now me and him don't know where are relationship stands...we didn't have sex though. She doesn't know but I feel like a terrible friend, but I don't not want to tell her cause its wrong, but then I can't tell her because everything will be messed up..Advice?

[dave216]

You and he did not hook up. Hooking up means actually getting connected, in other words sex. And what does your friend have to do with this? Are you saying your friend and her brother are in a sexual relationship? If not, it is none of her business who her brother is playing with. You and he are frewilled humans, you don't need any sisters permission. How much under 18 are you? If you are over 12 you should be more clear on interpersonal relations than you seem to be.

[teuton]

don't start thinking you must be loyal or whatever. He is like any other guy. She can decide if she thinks you are worth her brother but she doesn't get a say. and if you don't listen to her, that is her problem.

[Anonymous]

Why is it wrong to be attracted / hook up with your BFF's brother? Confused why that is so bad.

[ST_Hero]

There is nothing wrong with that. If you guys are really that close then he should understand. It might seem a little awkward for a while, but everything should work itself out.

[Anonymous]

In what way did you hook up, that didn't involve sex? Kissing or passionate hugging/touching? IDK, keep the secret secret I guess.