To summarize this mess in my head, I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for almost 7 years. My boyfriend's identical twin is dating my boyfriend's ex. I initially thought they only kissed, but later found out they were together for 4 months and were intimate. This was 12-13 years ago, however, I feel extremely uncomfortable and disturbed by this situation, experiencing nightmares and feeling sick whenever I am around her. Even more so because when I am around her, she constantly talks about her relationship and her ex (not my boyfriend) when we are alone together, making me even more uncomfortable. Despite expressing my feelings to her, she continues her behavior, which is what is leading me to seek advice and feedback on how to move past this situation.
I think your being smart and worried for a reason we usually are during things but this thing with your bfs twin sound alike it won't last long.
At best it's to get you away from him! Being with you getting under your skin worried so you leave and she can have your boyfriend.
Or is just trying to mess up her lives. Sounds like she does not care about the twin.
Get her to admit that and record it on your phone to show to your boyfriend and his brother!
Really when alone these manipulative people are easy to show their true colors and like to brag
Esp ially when worked up
Lol why not brag about your amazing boyfriend to get her mad have her say how she still cares and gets the copy 😂
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I think you are being overly paranoid but I understand why you would feel uncomfortable. It is kinda weird (especially on your boyfriend and his twin’s end, why would they wanna date the same person? Why would she be okay with dating her ex’s sibling) but if everyone is mature about it then it should be okay. I do think there needs to be some clear boundaries set between the four of you tho
It's a little WTF. I would NEVER date my brothers ex
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