Why do men go for uglier average women? pretty women are discarded? (Page 3)

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it seems the only pretty women who are taken are celebrities.. other than that, these days theyre usually outcasted or discarded. men only want and fall in love with really fugly looking women and no not ones with good personalities.. many are repulsive. I remember a guy marrying a girl right out of high school- she looked like a boy. I mean, you'd think she would be single her whole life--no she met someone and he was decent looking. A photographer i knew, his wife i mean she looked like drew carey--exactly.. she was really fat and looked like a man and he once said "even tho my wife was naked with me on the bed and i didn't want sex" as if, i didn't want sex DESPITE her being there.. what really? 

its REALLY confusing.. every average to ugly female i know is ALWAYS taken.. every really hot girl i know is ALWAYS single. its baffling that men want really ugly women.. they just do. they scowl at women like me or others i know.. who are pretty. they reject us treat us like dirt and get an ego trip off it. I've had men GROWL at me angrily.. they make fun of me. i see ugly women with blah personalities.. with decent looking guys.. but women who are appealing and looks personality everything.. men don't want..

i remember in college all us girls wanted this one guy.. he totally was sick of women wanting him.. later he married this homely weird girl.. like wait he passed up lots of pretty nice women for just a blah girl. i see lots of guys married to super ugly women.. repulsive women.. like the kinds u think people in school made fun of.. fat, ugly weird. these women are SUPER confident and arrogant and even make fun of the pretty women. even a guy i knew in HS.. really fat people made fun of him.. even he's married..

i know lots of pretty and nice girls who are cool and all single.. i know dd gorgeous women who are single.. i know one hot girl who had no friends and was a slave to people cuz she had no friends.. wtf is going on here.. its revenge of the ugly people who are abusing hot women

Strider90 · Answer

This happens when often because the super sexy woman is too good for them. Deep inside them they may want one but they know they have no chances. And so do I. If you say that as being (I just guess) a super sexy woman in her 30's, I would never dare to make a move towards you.

Powdude43 · Answer

Pretty girls are more daunting to approach. Also, looks aren't everything; the sorority girls on my campus are hot as hell but have awful personalities.

BelleGirl21 · Answer

If I start a list of everything wrong with this question I'll be here until  Friday . Ugh

Anonymous · Answer

My experience is that pretty women are pretty but seem to know they're pretty and use that for attention or have other men always hitting, flirting, or asking them out. It become frustrating to be with someone that just gets all that attention. It's exhausting. I even have known women like this that strive to get men to comment and like them. Some of the worse personalities I've dealt with are from those women that are pretty, because they know the guy they're with can be replaced. What they don't know or get is that most men only want one thing and it's not a healthy committed relationship. Average healthy and affectionate women are where things flourish with.

ManuelMarquez · Answer

It is because most preety women only want good looking guys (most preety women of all ages) and most of the preety females in their teens and early twenties don't have good personalties but most of the preety women in their mid to late twenties and older are nice. BUT even though many of them become nice most of them still only want good looking guys (nothing is wrong with that) but that is the reason most average and below average looking guys don't bother to ask them out. By the way you are really mean because of the things you said.

Watermelonoma · Answer

the very attractive girls tend to not be interested in me, so what would you have me do? lol. Of coarse I got after slightly more average girls because they are more open minded

Anonymous · Answer

I don't know about guys settling for ugly girls since most the really attractive and personable women I meet have been in long term relationships but I can say even just through this one posting with the updates you come off as combative with serious emotional hang ups. I'm not all that surprised guys keep their distance. Not trying to be mean, just give you the honest truth as I see it.

Drath · Answer

most men seem to think pretty women are harder to approach and uglier ones are easier.

some men dont do that though, i dont do that neither, it just seems like giving "levels" or "stages" to people, just approach every human normally guys...

Anonymous · Answer

Attractive women act like any male who approaches them is a creep, villain, pervert, or sexual predator. We have been trained by the actions of attractive women, never to approach them because we are likely to be brutally rejected and ridiculed. Therefore, we admire attractive women from a far, and hope no one see's us or once again we will be given the shame nonsense.

lumos · Answer

Your attitude and personality seems p shitty to be honest. Wouldn't surprise me if that's why guys aren't chasing after you.

Prof_Don · Answer

Because these "pretty girls" you speak of, don't come of as approachable.  Either they display lack of eye contact, or displaying "closed" body language.

Hubris · Answer

You are weird. Sorry to agree with them, I guess. You know why men discard you? Because you're so in love with yourself that they doubt you'd have any to spare for them.

sizedoesnotmatter · Answer

i know how you feel but be sure they try to put you dow cuz they think you're out of their league and go for fat and ugly girls cuz they think they will be the dominate in the relationship don't give a fuck about this assholes

matheus_mb · Answer

Many men must feel intimidated by the beautiful women's beauty and automatically think they won't have a chance of that those women aren't single. It's the only reasonable explanation I can find.

lkjhg69cum · Answer

Some pretty women are bitches and prudes. Less attractive women usually aren't.

martyfellow · Answer

Most really pretty women, hey, unless you're an oil magnate or something, they don't want to know you exist. So a lot of guys simply look away from them, don't even really see them any more.

Ycruz8989 · Answer

I'm not ugly at all 99% of pretty women reject me so I don't even try or care anymore pretty women are not the only ones with this problem but as a guy every time I see a very pretty girl they won't even second guess me like I'm not worthy but ugly /fat girls don't give a F they going give me all I want

Ben_wood · Answer

I find it's  Easter  to approach the girls I'm less attracted to I don't know its sort of like a mindset I go to, also the really attractive girls in Australia all seem to be so bitchy, like I have not met 1 nice attractive girl

DodgersGM · Answer

So guys not only go for girls that they find ugly, but they also go for girls that they find undesirable from a personality perspective?

JeanCam · Answer

well, obviously good looking is not the only thing that matters! And i'd always find it was easier to find a intelligent girl not necessarily so pretty than one that are both

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