I have tried to seek answers in 'specialized' articles online, but they have left me deeply unsatisfied. That's because people can't seem to answer a question in logical terms. The answers seem to end up revolving around the idea that there is a choice to make between beautiful and shallow/self absorbed/lack of effort to better the relationship and unattractive with a wonderful personality, eager to please. And I find this to lack in logic and substance. This choice is not real! These are not the only 2 options. I have seen unattractive women who posess all the negative traits people imagine the beautiful ones having, and the other way around. For some reason, people seem unwilling to accept that the world contains a solid number of attractive individuals, who are attractive inside and out, and this issue, I realize, goes beyond gender. I am sure it also applies to men. And, well, not to sound conceited, but it is a frustrating thing to acknowledge.
So, why do men REALLY settle for plain/unattractive women after all?
I have tried to seek answers in 'specialized' articles online, but they have left me deeply unsatisfied. That's because people can't seem to answer a question in logical terms. The answers seem to end up revolving around the idea that there is a choice to make between beautiful and shallow/self absorbed/lack of effort to better the relationship and unattractive with a wonderful personality, eager to please. And I find this to lack in logic and substance. This choice is not real! These are not the only 2 options. I have seen unattractive women who posess all the negative traits people imagine the beautiful ones having, and the other way around. For some reason, people seem unwilling to accept that the world contains a solid number of attractive individuals, who are attractive inside and out, and this issue, I realize, goes beyond gender. I am sure it also applies to men. And, well, not to sound conceited, but it is a frustrating thing to acknowledge.
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