I know a 300 pound woman who is mentally challenged and a pathological liar with a bad temper and never takes responsibility for her actions and she is dating a guy who is tall and average weight and has a car and decent looks - his personality is terrible but visually and financially he has higher status than her. Is he dating her because he wants somebody he can control? He wants somebody who will never say no to bed side contact? He wants somebody he can be weird with? He wants somebody he can abuse? He wants to be worshiped by a woman who idolizes him? He wants a woman who is open to having kids with him and knows a normal woman will not offer him that? He wants a punching bag for his rage? Why is he dating this morbidly obese pathologically lying bad tempered manipulative depressed and mentally ill gold digger?