She could have good qualities that you can't see that he loves about her he's with her for a reason and just beacuse she is overweight doesn't mean she is ugly. Beauty is inthe eyes of the beholder
you already answer your question because he wants somebody he can control also usually , the prettier women are , the guy need to try harder to get her. it seems this guy doesn't want to try that hard , so..
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Because she's on birth control yes that actually happened to me that was the only attractive about her at the time she was on birth control which tells me she's taking care of business which tells me she's thirsty and wants to get it on and no this is not a Marvin Gaye album.
It's one thing finding a cute face, taking her home and fucking her.
But it's a blessing to have that childhood friend now be your significant other, because they understand you best and stayed by your side the whole way. The way they looked never mattered to you.
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beggers can't be choosers, its near impossible to get a decent girl, men have to settle for trash, its easier..,..
I dated a girl that was like 4'8" and 100 pounds, but because of her personality and just who she was I don't think I would have even cared if she gained weight and became a 300 pound whale, because I was in love with who she was.
You didn’t know who she was because she didn’t know who she was. I met my ex when she was 21, I think 4’11 100 lbs and she went from being the sweetest girl to wanting to be a party girl when I did not let her do that she stopped taking her meds and birth control, tried to get pregnant with my kid, and then assaulted me. All from 21-24. Women don’t know who they are until the mid to late 20s and they never really understand the difference between the ideal world and the real world.
@DeltaCharlieEcho I don't know. Honestly she was more mature in my opinion than women 10 or 15 years older than her. There was no crying, no complete breakdowns etc. I guess that's what threw me off, I forgot I was still dealing with a 21 year old who could change her mind in the blink of an eye.
I hate you. Why do say that she is his punching bag? If he dates a supermodel, then people have issues and if he dates an obese women then again he is at blame. I don't see anything wrong with him.
Because women ruined the dating market. Most men are considered unattractive while most women that are objectively unattractive are considered a prize.
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Because he likes her? I know if i were a guy I wouldn’t wanna date a woman that judges other women for being 300 pounds, and depressed. You sound salty and mentally ill more than she does tbh👩🦯
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Probably lack of options so he's taking the bottom of the dumpster because that's all that's available to him.
She could have good qualities that you can't see that he loves about her he's with her for a reason and just beacuse she is overweight doesn't mean she is ugly. Beauty is inthe eyes of the beholder
you already answer your question
because he wants somebody he can control
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usually , the prettier women are , the guy need to try harder to get her.
it seems this guy doesn't want to try that hard , so..
Because she's on birth control yes that actually happened to me that was the only attractive about her at the time she was on birth control which tells me she's taking care of business which tells me she's thirsty and wants to get it on and no this is not a Marvin Gaye album.
Some guys go for bigger girls because they assume the chances of them cheating are low. And some guys just have a thing for bigger women.
It's one thing finding a cute face, taking her home and fucking her.
But it's a blessing to have that childhood friend now be your significant other, because they understand you best and stayed by your side the whole way. The way they looked never mattered to you.
beggers can't be choosers, its near impossible to get a decent girl, men have to settle for trash, its easier..,..
Yeah no kidding
I dated a girl that was like 4'8" and 100 pounds, but because of her personality and just who she was I don't think I would have even cared if she gained weight and became a 300 pound whale, because I was in love with who she was.
Why did u use past tense? How did your relationship go? Did it end?
@shygirlie_xoxo_ She dumped me.
Shit man. That was not good
@shygirlie_xoxo_ She was your age and didn't really know what she wanted
You didn’t know who she was because she didn’t know who she was. I met my ex when she was 21, I think 4’11 100 lbs and she went from being the sweetest girl to wanting to be a party girl when I did not let her do that she stopped taking her meds and birth control, tried to get pregnant with my kid, and then assaulted me. All from 21-24. Women don’t know who they are until the mid to late 20s and they never really understand the difference between the ideal world and the real world.
@DeltaCharlieEcho I don't know. Honestly she was more mature in my opinion than women 10 or 15 years older than her. There was no crying, no complete breakdowns etc. I guess that's what threw me off, I forgot I was still dealing with a 21 year old who could change her mind in the blink of an eye.
answering the question not the details.
Attraction is very subjective. It’s really hard to know or fully understand why you are attracted to on person over another.
Because he can't find anyone else to put up with him. He's unhappy and he is tired of looking.
Because there are men out there like me who don't care about how someone looks.
What a loser
Maybe you should leave your opinion out of their lives bc they're grown up and can handle it themselves. They don't need your judgement
They must see something in her that others don''t! Maybe it's more of a personality thing than it is about looks or body image!
I hate you. Why do say that she is his punching bag? If he dates a supermodel, then people have issues and if he dates an obese women then again he is at blame. I don't see anything wrong with him.
I agree. Who thinks guys date down to abuse?
Because you grow up to learn that personality is the most important thing over looks
Because there is much more to a woman than her looks and attractiveness is multidimensional.
Literally couldn’t be more wrong. There can be more to a woman than looks but most of the time there isn’t. And attraction comes first.
@DeltaCharlieEcho: Maybe in your social circle women have nothing to offer than looks. Maybe you need to get out a little more if that's the case.
Heterosexual men dont care so much about looks lol. Women and gay men care more about looks according to statistics and so women are more visual.
Also these men may care more about his wife's personality
I don't know, but if you know any beautiful women who want to date a chubby, middle aged guy please let me know. :)
Because women ruined the dating market. Most men are considered unattractive while most women that are objectively unattractive are considered a prize.
Because he likes her? I know if i were a guy I wouldn’t wanna date a woman that judges other women for being 300 pounds, and depressed. You sound salty and mentally ill more than she does tbh👩🦯