I think the stereotype of Asian men expected to date within their own race is a stereotype perpetuated most by people of non-Asian descent. If it was so true, why would it be okay for a Asian woman but not for an Asian male?
I think that stereotype about Asian men is not because of Asians themselves but because of American society underrepresenting Asians in general. When they talk about minorities, they usually only focus on Black people or Latinos. I think it's just funny that society considers Asians to be the model minority, but they don't give them the same respect in media in general.
It's contradictory that mainstream America praises Asians to be hard-working, smart and high achievers, but they don't want to give enough credit to give Asians any value in the media unless it's for something stereotypical such as portraying doctors or being in martial arts movies. In a nutshell it's like they're saying "You're almost equal to us, but not quite."
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A lot of girls in Western counties don't find them attractive. They prefer whites, blacks, and Hispanics. And of course, the penis size stereotype doesn't help which could be the biggest factor.
Why don't Asian guys date me is my question? >:O LOL.
Just kidding. But seriously.
It might just be the type of girls they like or that they're part of a self-fulfilling prophecy. I know a lot of girls who like Asian men, but they might not be their ideal type. They also think Asian men don't have interest in them. Culturally, many Asians are expected to date within their race by their families. The other thing, is self-fulfilling prophecy. They believe girls don't like them, so they act shy or unapproachable towards them. Girls see this, assume they don't like them, so they don't bother. Then it appears to the guy that they weren't interested. These are just some possible reasons though... I personally haven't noticed girls not liking Asian guys... I know a lot (including myself!) who are very attracted to them. ^^
I'll agree with @NerdInDenial and say that for the most part, it's nothing against Asian guys personally, just a few stereotypes.
The most prevalent one of those that I can imagine would put off a lot of non-Asian girls is that Asian guys prefer to date within their own race. I actually thought that for the longest time, with no clue that it's not fully true.
I'm dating an Asian guy and I'm sure if you'd confidently approach a non-Asian girl you're interested in, she'd be more than happy to give you a chance!
Because it's rare to come across one and for him to like me back. I speak to one Asian guy who only admitted he liked me when he was drunk and then that's why we got talking more. I thought he didn't like me because he never bothered with me. I'm speaking to another Asian guy and he seems to keep it very platonic, I think they're too polite for their own good and respect us so much that they're too scared to flirt! I would like to date an Asian guy.
1 - they treat me like a second class citizen
2 - they think i'm their property
3 - they expect me to wait on them like their mom does
4 - when they sweat, they smell "sour", not musky/clean like other guys do
5 - most of them suffer from "little man syndrome"... yes, small skinny dicks
6 - tied to #5, they leave me unsatisfied, and only care about their satisfaction
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Because they look like this:
Too ugly...
The majority of women don't like Asian guys because of the stereotypes. However, if the Asian guy is more of the Western Alpha male, then he has a chance. A lot of Asian guys don't even approach non-Asian women.
Man, I'd love to date an Asian guy... Their looks are my weakness. Unfortunately, nobody in sight or taken
I prefer pretty asain or mexican girls cause most of the time they dont ask stuck up or play hard to get like a lot of white girls do. This is not always too though
Are you the same guy who posted the other question? Look girls like guys in general and yes some have racial preferences but oh well, if it's a huge problem than just do online dating or go out more..
I would date an Asian guy :p think they're pretty kawai.. Wait? Is that a stereotype? >_>
Anyways, I would if I like his personality :)The dudes that I know are all old men, so no thank you XD
I would date Asian guys.. I had a crush on this really cute kpop star once.
Cool Asians get a lot of girls in my opinion. The typical skinny, nerd, awkward Asians have it hard because they're unattractive as hell.
People think I'm weird enough, I don't need you to make me looks more weird thank you very much.
I think it has to do with the small penis stereotype.
They're always quiet. Never flinching. Wall on the fly type of people.
Oh god here go all the women claiming they love Asian guys but just can't find one Lol.
There are like thousands at every University in the USA lolOneday if i find a Asian guy, i'd like to date him :)
A lot of Asians don't go for non Asians because they don't have the confidence to. So they figure "eh I'll stick to Asian girls."
It's because Hollywood has portrayed Asian men as feminine. The Korean pop stars just makes things look worse.
just move environments dude. there's girls out there who will like you
I WOULD IF AN Asian GUY EVER LIKED ME BACK :(
Because Asian guys don't go for me.
They don't approach people, most of them are shy.
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