People say shit in the heat of the moment, you just need to control yourself. But I think the whole 'don't call a girl fat' is a bit stupid. Why isn't it 'don't call anyone fat, male or female' or 'don't be critical of others'.
Some girls take it lightly others, as you experienced don't take it so lightly. It depends how you are as a person. Do you care what other people think or do you just want to be happy with yourself? Yes girls AND boys are self-conscious, and obviously no one wants someone talking shit about them.
If someone came up to me and said I was fat I'd tell them they were wrong, maybe think about it for a bit, but I wouldn't dwell on it or punch the guy in the face - unless it got to the point of bullying.
But hey, what I'm trying to say is don't say hurtful stuff to anyone because exaclty what it says on the tin - it hurts. Some people more than others but it still hurts. People want to be attractive so when you shatter that view you also shatter their self-confidence. But again in depends on who the person is and how they'll deal with the critism.
I wouldn't say that if I were you though ;)
Sorry it's so long, but I hope it helps! :)
Kick in the balls? Nah. Sucker punch to the mouth? Sure. I feel like I'd punch someone in the face for calling me fat.
Any violence would be uncalled for, even a slap. It was pretty shitty of you though, cuz people like to make fun of women's appearances too much and it is more damaging than it should be.
I would have just walked away. I've had men call me ugly or flat chested or insult my appearance face to face and I just walk away. Sometimes I will say something, but I'd rather just go.
Again, violence was uncalled for and your remark was uncalled for as well. But still, she should just be the better person and walk away from the drama.
Depends. Calling a girl who is clearly not fat, fat. Not really deserving.
Calling a girl who is fat, and struggles with weight issues, is pretty bad. Especially if they dealt with it their whole life. I was a chubby kid (middle and highschool) and there were definitely people bigger than me, but kids are fucking mean and no matter if you lose the weight you kind of always see yourself as the fat kid...
I know there is the whole 'sticks and stones' but the truth is bones heal, words really can't be taken back or fixed. Meh, I don't know I just don't think anything is that simple.
I'm not one for judging severity of people's actions, but I am against physical assault (note: physical assault and self-defense are 2 different things). You did something that you knew would hurt her the most (emotionally), she did something that she knew would hurt you the most (physically). Neither one of you was particularly classy, but I don't think what she did was right. Its immature, TBH.
Alternate perspective: It could've been worse if she was more malicious. I've had male friends that had their lives ruined by their ex-girlfriends.
Would I personally do it? No. But you should try putting yourself in her shoes.
Your pain, while severe, is temporary (assuming there is no real damage of course!). After a bit, you're fine to carry on with your life.
On the other hand, the hurt she felt when you called her fat, will more than likely stick with her for a while. Maybe even influence certain aspects of her life (not saying she'll automatically get an ED, but this paired with other aspects might do it).
This is of course only general outside perspective. I have no idea who this girl is and where her confidence level stands. Nor do I know if you did in fact sustain lasting damage from the kick.
Violence is never the answer, but asking this question to others does not change the fact that you drew this violence out of her. Right or wrong, you hurt her enough that she felt kicking you in the nuts was a just punishment. All of us have different buttons that people could push to bring out the worst in us. Honestly, you probably hurt her way more than she hurt you. While your pain was extreme, it was only temporary. Hers will last as long as her insecurity does, which could be forever for her. A comment like that could be the straw that breaks the camels back, driving people to self destructive behavior. You don't know the damage you caused, so how could you or any of us debate how much her physical response was justifiable. No matter how mad you are, don't be cruel to others. You don't know how much harm you could be causing, and karma could knock you in the sac.
You're another insensitive one. Guys are so crude when it comes to talking about things in general with their guy friends as well as insulting females. Too much swearing about females.. Bitch, cunts, mother fucking bitch, ho's, she betta suck my dick tonite or ill fuck her hard...
You got what you asked for. Words cut deep wounds within proximity but not far away... It seems to be a frequent insult to call each fat or ugly in high school. Karma reeks phat shite. :P
Oh wow. No! Actually, any girl who kicks you in the balls for calling her fat is just plain crazy. You should of had her arrested. And honestly its not like you curse her right so sorry but something was just wrong with her. Maybe she just wasn't used to being told the truth. Lol.
I was being called fat till 7th grade I never was fat and it hurt my feelings so fu**ing bad I would've LOVED to kick them in their "balls"! But I didn't and she shouldn't have done it too! Honestly though you kinda deserved it, lol but still not saying it was right!!
Hahaha Yep... I kind of see her point of view...
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BUT, I'd probably just kick you in the face or something less painful like that... =)
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You were probably the straw that broke the camel's back... Anyway, don't call people shit, you never know if they are crazy and it's not worth losing the feeling of your left nut or becoming infertile. Of course she was wrong for kicking you in the balls. Two wrongs won't make a right, but I can't speak for crazy.
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