Would you date outside your race?

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So ladies and guys can reply also. Would you date outside your race or ethnicity for those who are clever ;) know what I mean :) Personally I date Latinas or Japanese girls who are Americanized

ElizG45 · Accepted Answer

To be honest, I physically prefer dating outside of my race. I like darker boys (for a whole slew of reasons, not just skin color, although I prefer darker skin as well).

The one caveat is that I also like guys who are very intelligent, thoughtful, and well spoken, and the honest truth is that that's more common in whites and Asians.

Frankly, I think I'm kind of unique in this regard. I never really "fit in" back in high school, never watched all the latest shows/music videos and whatever, and I noticed that a lot of girls had views on dating that seemed a bit racist, IE the nerdy girls would only want to date the races that were stereotyped for being nerdy (white and Asian), while the girls who were attracted to darker guys tended to be more "ghetto" and trashy, if you will.

bubola · Accepted Answer

I'm a black girl and yes sure, we all bleed red at the end of the day. But you would also have to consider conflicting cultures, religions etc... If you date someone you should be thinking about if it could become long term commitment. To do that you need to see if you are compatible and if your families would be able to get along. Failing that go ahead and do your thing.

Genie23 · Accepted Answer

Yup. If he has great personality, then I don't see why not. Race is not an issue for me.

aficionado · Accepted Answer

Yes I would, but I seriously doubt girls of other races would date me because my race/nationality has been stereotyped as 'ugly, dirty and perverted' all over the world.

RickyRicthofen · Accepted Answer

My girlfriend is white so I go with white girls

Hidden_P · Answer

I don't seek outside my race, likewise I don't exclude outside my race.
I've only ever dated my race. But, I have only dated 2 people. And I like in a 95% white population town..

I'd have to be pretty determined to date outside my race.

My brother is married to a Madagascan. My niece is half Madagascan and half British.

ncannon18 · Answer

I most likely will, become I always imagined myself being with someone with a different race than mine. I'm a black dude who mostly had lots of white friends & girls who tried to flirt with me many years ago. And just want to say that I have a lot of sexual fantasies about good looking white women most of my life.

my_name_is_Karina · Answer

I have dated outside my race but I prefer hispanic guys lol

capncool · Answer

I'm white and race isn't really a concern for me. I've dated all kinds of races and at the end of the day it doesn't really make much of a difference. It seems like mostly Indian/South Asian girls that come onto me more than anyone else and I do find the darker skin sort of sexy in a way ;)

Gummybearlover · Answer

I would be willing to date outside of my race. I understand everyone has their own preferences. I personally do not date an African American or Hispanics. I also take into account cultural differences and parents having issues with their kids dating outside their race. so that's a big thing for me.

KyleSmith · Answer

Yes, however on the side of sexual attraction (ignoring personality), I dont find black women to be very attractive. In the case that a black women and I were talking, got to know one another and I find out she has quite an extraordinary personality , then yes I would date her. The same goes for Indian men.

Prof_Don · Answer

I'm a black American.

I'm definitely open to the idea. I see no reason to handicap myself with my chances of finding love.

Hell, love is hard enough to find as it is! Why eliminate entire ethnicities of people on a whim?

xobrowneyedbeauty · Answer

i swear this question is asked all the time. yes i would (and i am), and i think that's a pretty common thing these days.

MeganLoves · Answer

I would date Hispanic guys Black guys and White Guys

Mocha_Queen · Answer

I would, in fact I encourage it, my bf is white. If more people dated outside their race the world might be a little better off.

SheMoansTyrone · Answer

man :) you believe I love me white girls haha than again I would date Asian girls too

Sundance99 · Answer

I'm South Asian but would probably only go out with white guys I was attracted to - don't ask why I just would. Actually I know why but it would take too long

cupcakes94 · Answer

I don't specifically chase after a certain race, I date whomever I like. My current boyfriend is half black, half white and I'm white. It doesn't really make much of a difference to me.

Craveyou · Answer

My boyfriend isn't white so yes I like dating outside my "race"

MJas16 · Answer

I wouldn't feel uncomfortable. Im not racist but I come from a family that feel like we should all stick to our own kind.

musiclover1359 · Answer

Yes I do, the color of their skin doesn't bother me for its what its inside that matters

sweetone13 · Answer

Of course I would. Personality is more important than looks. Rather have a sweet guy with tattoos than a muscle dude who is mean to others

sammy_31 · Answer

You bet. I wouldn't just date Hispanic/Latino guys.

kaminalove · Answer

Yes I would :) Currently interested in someone outside my race at the moment! And I'm open to any race anyways!

John_Doesnt · Answer

It's only based on an aesthetic opinion for which race I date. I'm not attracted to darker skin so I date white and Asian women. Because it has nothing to do with actual race, I won't date white women with a heavy tan.

KramivViolin · Answer

My parents are collectively slightly racist, I'm Caucasian, but I love chocolate skinned guys. Brown skin is very pretty.

Lyndsielee666 · Answer

i don't find Asians attractive so i definitely date outside of my race...

starstuffsf · Answer

Yeah I don't care about race at all when it comes to the people I like. As long as they have a nice personality 😊

Ozanne · Answer

I'm already in an interracial marriage, and even before him, about half of my boyfriends/relationships were interracial also.

Love_People_olivia · Answer

Race is a slight issue for me but only because of my family's beliefs.

RationalMale · Answer

Nah. I'm white, and I've never gone on a date with a girl that wasn't white. If I'm going to date a girl with the intention of having a relationship, I'm going to get what I want. I'm just not attracted enough to other races.

chrisbigman · Answer

Yes, I would. I gotta be honest - I'm not sure how my family would react if I brought home a girl from another race. I'm pretty certain they wouldn't have a problem, but then again, who knows for sure?

MakeitOrDieTrying · Answer

In fact, dating someone from my own ethnicity just feels 'too familiar', it's hard to explain, don't like it. I personally prefer hispanic and then white girls, although I've never crushed on a white girl before, at least not irl :)

NoMoreDreams · Answer

I'm half Caucasian and half Palestinian and my boyfriend is Vietnamese. I'm definitely into dating outside my race.

justanothergager · Answer

I won't date black or brown. Way too many bad experiences with them. If u down vote me or have smartest remarks, day it dating them or having some experience. Mine were terrible

Geminihunk · Answer

If you click with the other person of another race, who cares? And what's stopping the chemistry from flowing.

menina · Answer

Well, that would depend on many factors. But I guess I can say yes.

majesticokay · Answer

Yes, I would. My mom is hawaiian and white and my dad is black. So interracial dating was okay.

SakuraChii · Answer

Yes I do it more than inside but in all honesty it doesn't matter

FutbolMexicana · Answer

YEs I would :) I have @soccerchick4eva in mind to date ;)

Mustachekitteh · Answer

ATM I am dating a dude who is Portuguese. So yes I would, lol.

Grace_Rdz · Answer

Sure, I would. I'm Hispanic by the way... Js, Tyler 😏💁😂

Shi_yai · Answer

yess , most def. I've only been with Hispanics and I'm the only one in my family who does.

I_am_repulsive · Answer

I've never been attracted to any Asian whatsoever, and the irony is that I am Asian, therefore hell to the yes.

-Zoe- · Answer

Yes I would.. It just seems that no one outside of my race is liking me. lol :p

Ydiaandyou · Answer

Well I like dating within my own race but I suppose I could date outside my race

Evan_aa · Answer

Of course. I dont discriminate. I'm African American and I'm open minded.

McKSweg · Answer

I'm dating an  English  indian girl and it's amazing xD

Northeast106 · Answer

Yes, I have also married outside of my race as well.

Canterbury_Bellz · Answer

It doesn't really matter. As as they're sweet, and to be around

Succcesssfulll · Answer

I would probably only date outside my race. Im attracted to hispanic and white guys.

BigbuttLvr · Answer

The fact that this is being asked in 2015 is infuriating. I wish dumb people would stop raising kids.

Pinkbeauty · Answer

yes if I did I would date guys young as 18-22 who are ether Canadian British irish Australian or Norwegian or from Denmark

sandysmile · Answer

i'm open minded, but i think i'm drawn more towards brown guys :/

RedThread · Answer

I don't even factor in race when I'm attracted to someone. It's whatever to me.

just2sweet · Answer

I have, and would. I'm Hispanic (Mexican-American) and have dated black guys & white guys. I guess you can say I am very open-minded... I even like girls lol.

NoorAmin · Answer

No problem :-) there's no differences, its only 'race'.. perceptions make it different

IAmMellow · Answer

Of course. I've only ever dated outside my race. Not on purpose though, it just happened that way.

Swimmerdude1994 · Answer

i would totally date outside my race, how else would i date an Asian women. xd

Introvert94 · Answer

I have, don't like it, but may do it again. I don't have much to choose from from my race. they not into me like other races.

hypno-trip · Answer

I prefer European, Latina, and Middle Eastern girls if I am to be perfectly honest.

Vondawson · Answer

Yea I would date outside my race. Its my specialty bro

Stefanievaz0707 · Answer

Yes I would. I don't mind really but he has to speak fluent  English

TierraArvia · Answer

Yeah! I prefer Asian men, Hispanic men, Middle Eastern men, and European men.

Ljubica · Answer

Yeah, I've already done it and it's not a problem for me

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