Yesterday, me and my girlfriend were having a causal conversation about her friend, Adalyn. Adalyn is in my girlfriend's sorority and has recently been sort of a bitch to her even though they're friends. Now, my freshman year of college Adalyn was the first new friend I had, and convinced me to rush for a fraterinity. She basically is the person I have to thank for all the friends I have now. So we were talking about Adalyn and Taylor, my girlfriend, started saying some really bad shit about her. I felt like I had to at least defend Adalyn a little since were still friends and we've been friends since we were frosh. So I told Taylor that she was overeacting and Taylor started bringing up all the times I had overeacted in the span we had been dating. I said oh really and started bringing up all the times she had overeacted and we both, for some reason, were yelling over eachother. We were dumping all the shit we had on eachother, eventully forgetting what we were orginally fighting over. We were just trying to prove eachother wrong for no reason. Finally she yelled something that really ticked me off about my ex. So I yelled over her "Taylor shut the fuck up for once." and all at once she gave me the worst look and she just slapped me really hard. I'm pretty sure I just stood there staring her down, not saying a word for about a minute before she said sorry really quickly under her breath. I just said "Alright Taylor." And grabbed my jacket and left.
Do y'all think I should break up with her? I asked my friends and they all said it was a slap and I'm thinking to much of it.
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She went way too far in slapping you. I mean, you seem REALLY upset with what happened and I wouldn't blame you if you decided to break up with her. However, I think you should just talk to her and get everything out. What she did was wrong but if she genuinely apologizes towards you, I would give her the benefit of the doubt (one more chance). You guys were in the moment, she wasn't thinking and she just slipped and fucked up with you. If things have been really rough lately between you two and the slap was just the cherry on top to all the problems you guys are having, then I would definitely end the relationship.5