I've been ghosted and it blows but i've also done the same to someone and when she sent the 2nd text i sent the "hey, i think we're better off as friends but if you don't want to continue a friendship then i understand."
- When we went out we made out, had a good time but in the end i felt she really liked me and the feeling just wasn't mutual. So rather than keeping things going.. i decided to ghost her even though on the date everything seemed fine.
"Annoyed at this point and don't think I want to date someone for a while after this."
- I know, it sucks.. but take a couple of weeks.. do some positive happy things and when you're ready again.. something will come along again and we get to go through the whole process again!
yay dating.
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Ahh hunny! I dont have any great advice but I just wanted to say you're definitely not alone - it happened to me not so long ago. I was silly tho as I slept with him first time we met as he said all the right things. He ignored my messages despite being online. Was back on Tinder and defriended me on Facebook. It's still hurtful but I dont know what I did wrong. I'm trying to work out myself why anyone would do that. Sending lots of Love xxx
He changed his mind. There's no reasoning behind it. Just because you like someone doesn't mean they feel the same. It sucks and it hurts but that's just life. This won't be the last time it happens to you , it happens to everyone. Just have to grow a thicker skin and not let it get to you. It's their problem, not yours.
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