So I went on a first date with a lady and we literally been talking 3 days straight and seemed to have had a lot in common and then she got her dream job and to celebrate I asked her out to dinner... I was slightly late and I apologize there was a wreck and I rushed to get there and she said it was fine... now we been talking for 2 hours over lunch then we got up and it was time to go but she like rushed out right after saying she had a great time... but then she next responded back to me after telling her I had fun and she is totally amazing. My question here is mostly for ladies, but anyone can answer... Have you ever ghosted someone, and if so... why? To me, ghosting is quite painful. If someone isn't interested, they should just be honest
Has anyone ever ghosted someone after a first date?
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I've never ghosted a girl. For any reason. Even a date. Now, I've blocked some who became a menace, but never ghosted. Years back I went on a date with a chick I was talking to on an app, we decided to meet up that same night. Maybe I shouldn't exactly call it a date but I guess it was like that.
I think we were both looking to hook up but she was just pretending that's not what she was into but while we were in the restaurant she kept looking at me, I guess trying to size me up and figure out if I was hot enough for her to sleep with. Which I guess she decided I was not, and she was also probably pissed that she didn't get a free meal (I told her I would pay my half), so she made up a bullshit story for why she had to go. Next day when I texted she never answered. Which was what I figured.
I know you asked mostly for 'ladies' answers but I wanna say I agree with you on ghosting being incredibly disgusting, and painful too. Dating stats have always claimed that men ghost more than women, and I don't believe that for even a millisecond. I think women more often see ghosting as a way out because they fear having to be courageous more than men. And you will also hear wayyyy more women than men try to justify why they ghost someone.
More like for me 2 dates.
You were ghosted after two dates?
Oh you ghosted mind if I ask what your reason was?
No he ghosted me.
Oh im very sorry to hear that it hurts very much so... at least it did for me
Oh hell yes.
You ghosted someone after a few first date? What made you ghost them
She had personality.