It's bad. You're acting exactly like the guy who hurt you. He hurt you and now you're hurting others but it's not okay. You have to let it go. You are taking your revenge out on others and that will not make you happy. You're letting the hurt make you hurt others. And you're not happy or fulfilled, are you? Hurt never fills anything. Revenge only makes you sick. It's hard to not hate sometimes, it's hard to keep yourself soft and tender and full of light when faced with so much hurt and badness. But if you keep doing this, you're a part of it. You're not a part of the solution, you're a part of the problem. That isn't okay.
I have a hard time believing players/jerks actually fall for you considering that these are the people who behave just like you. They aren't emotionally available people.
it's... a waste of your time. i think you're chipping away at yourself by acting this way, just my $0.02.
I say it makes you a bad person. How do you know these guys are players? Just because someone acts a certain doesn't make them that type of person. So you have not right to harm others. Do onto others as you would have done onto yourself, and you're not "Robin Hood."
So you're a b****, basically. Why don't just own it like a grown up and stop bullshitting yourself with the "I'm like Robin Hood" comment?
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It is what makes you different of the guys who broke your hurt you are just a female player hunting for players.
It is allways wrong to hurt someone no matter what he or she did but if you can live with the burden of knowing all of what you are doing is wrong ethicly viewed wrong.
I would still tell you to keep on going ( keep in mind I am one of that jerks )
It’s not weird at all. I did the same thing with women before I was ready to settle down and met my wife. I enjoyed dumping women that dumped a lot of men and making them feel the way they’ve made many men feel or the younger version of me would’ve felt if I dated them before I was wise to their guise. I think it’s more normal than you think. You’ll eventually get over it and settle down. Until then it isn’t unhealthy to indulge bc if you bottled that up it could’ve led to something worse later. I don’t regret my dating women just to unceremoniously dump them phase. As for the negative comments, it’s the internet. Everyone are judgmental saints behind a keyboard. It’s how people like me and you coped with early rejection and the power felt great. You’re not alone. Happy hunting.
Most players have been hurt before... Obviously, you becoming a player is a reflection of it... Just hurting someone more isn't going to help them see with new eyes, it's only going to keep them on that twisted path... Try being there as a friend and show them the good in people... You're no better than the guy who hurt you... It's heartless - you were hurt yes, now get over it and let the ego go already
hurting someone else cause a certain person hurt is wrong don't be dumb
how about instead of hurting them be honest, hey look someone hurt me and I don't want anything serious lets just be friends and fuck, that's what I do if she doesn't like it I move on you're better off being honest than hurting people on purpose
Its werid there's à Guy who postes the almost same thing No its not okay and im sorry you got your heart broke but i get it too that crap stay a with you
two wrongs don`t make a right.
are you trolling by the way I can`t make out?
A more accurate term would be a love vigilante, but if you enjoy doing that, then more power to you. Just be careful to not fall in love.
Why would u waste ur time? I thought the purpose of being with someone or actually showing interest in them is because they have potential to become that one... welp
It's bad acting in the same way that you were treated and didn't like, how low can you go two wrongs do not make it right.
Why would you waste your time? You have a life to live.
It's bad because you think being a whore is like Robin Hood.
Yes I think it's bad, it just keeps the hate going
You're like the karma police. I like it :)
You can't break a player's heart
What kind of fairytales u livin... u grow up
Yes some would say that you have no heart The l
Well, stupid is as stupid does
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