Am I heartbroken?

[Lexina]

I had one of the most genuine relations with a male friend, we were not defined as a thing yet we interacted as such, months later I heard from his friend I broke his heart and mind you I also felt heartbroken. It's been four years already and I can't bring myself to love anyone else. Could it be that something went wrong somewhere?

[JeffersonA]

Sound alike a miscommunication and you both hope the other breaks the friend rope!

Really go talk with him and say you love him! You miss being around him!

Your over 16 time to actually talk like adults or this will end the friendship!

2 of my friends did this hoped the other would break the friend rope holding them apart but they never did and now they hate each other after 3 divorced they met up again and instantly got together.

All prevented with a real hard talk years before. Kinda wanted to slap them and just say go for it 🤣 in highschool wish I did

[Lexina]

They had a divorce in their marriages?

[JeffersonA]

They both married other people and it did not end well. They got together and are still married today!
Kinda goes with looking for that someone in someone else but you can never find that person even if you find Thier traits.

[Lexina]

This is what's happening for me right now, I don't know for him but there are times I think about the going and returning to him scenario

[JeffersonA]

Well try for him don't just let him walk away.
You can hope maybe but more then likely he will be married forevers.

[Lexina]

How do I start?

We stopped whatever we used to do

[JeffersonA]

Just go see him and talk share your feelings. Meet up some where or just text him how you feel.
How ever you feel that you can let him know. Even a letter left at his house

[Lexina]

Oh wow... We're in different cities

[JeffersonA]

Then give him a call with a plan to go visit him soon.
Sometimes long distance works

[Lexina]

Alright

[JeffersonA]

Thanks for mho

[Alex8736]

Did he stop talking to you out of nowhere? If it's not him telling you but instead a 3rd party I wouldn't believe anything unless you hear it directly from the horse's mouth

[Lexina]

He partially did, out of nowhere, our relation had breakages

[Alex8736]

I'm thinking his friend has the hots for you by randomly out of left field mentioning the person you were friends with to initiate a conversation. Just a wild guess

[Lexina]

I thought as much